secrets

[irishlassey]

I had recently someone ask me to not tell Thomas some thing.. and it was a silly thing too..so I removed the issue so i did not half to deal with the crappy drama. I have had problems with this person in the past when it comes to Thomas.. and interfering in our relationship..or other bullshit..its stressful enough with out childish games..I don't

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[elvenforever]

Oh, lose Kristy and have no guilt feelings. Seriously. She's still trying to fuck things up with you and Thomas, so who is more important, Thomas or Kristy? If you start looking at things like that, I think you will find certain decisions easier to make. *hugs*

[irishlassey]

normally I would say friends but thomas is different and I love him he is rare and I am unwill to give up him for her stupid drama.. I am trying but When you put it that way I agree she has to go

[elvenforever]

I'm glad that perspective helped. This relationship sounds very "real" to me, if you know what I mean, and it looks to me from the outside that it's well worth protecting and defending.

[irishlassey]

it is very real and good guys are hard to find...I am putting some distance from Kristy... she has a bf to focus on..

[steps_of_faith]

I've had 'friends' like Kristy in the past, so I feel your pain. If it were me, I would sit down and have a talk with her about the inappropriateness of her actions, and if she doesn't apologize and continues to do things like this, I would have to end the friendship. But I don't want to tell you what to do or anything.

I'm so glad that things with Thomas are still awesome! Your description of his kindness the other day sounded truly wonderful.

[irishlassey]

yeah I saddly have sat her down alot..it has just gotten to the point where its..simply to stressful..and Raven and Seana Have said that I should put myself and WhatI want first..Idk I am just putting some space there for a while