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[itsalouwelylife]

LIFE

is.... one BIG BLACK HOLE

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[asakiyume]

We're all here for you--even people like me, who are only faintly, electronically here, are here for you, and sending love.

But yes, it must be very black right now. It's okay, we'll sit with you in the darkness and maybe we can light some candles.

[itsalouwelylife]

Thank you so much F...thank you for the light...one month down...the darkness has not gone completely, the light from friends helps...

[asakiyume]

One step at a time. It's in your heart to be sad--how can it be helped? But the moments of brightness will grow, too, slowly.

[idahoswede]

I know through deponti what you are going through and you are SO in my thoughts since I'm going through similar struggles myself. My dear, I grieve with you even though I don't know you.

[itsalouwelylife]

Thank you so much C...Deponti did tell me about you. I hope your struggles are reduced/resolved more happily. The pain is too hard to bear. I follow your blog and feel inspired...i don't know you,yet in a strange way...at some level, I do...

[idahoswede]

That is because although we are of different countries and ages, we are both people who have had similar experiences and so we know first-hand each other's pain and stress and heartache. But you know what? We both WILL survive.

[premkudva]

So sorry to hear about your loss. [I just heard about your connection to our Deepa]

I can't imagine just what your are going through now.

[itsalouwelylife]

Thanks Prem, as I pick up the pieces of my life, it helps to know there are well wishers like you around. I always read your blog and find so much happiness reading about your little daughters...life does seem so hopeful then...thanks for helping through your delightful posts

[kadambarid]

I really didn't know what to say to you yesterday that people who love, support and are still with you haven't. Moreover, I was struck dumb to learn that you and Deponti were family. I was under some weird presumption.
Like I said, if there's any help at all that you need, just mail or call. I'm sure I can rush down and do what's possible. I hope that doesn't sound frivolous or anything. As a tamizh cliche goes - "siru thurumbUm pal kUttha UdhavUm"

[itsalouwelylife]

Thank you so much for visiting K...you know, you really don't need to say anything...presence of friends helps equally if not more...

A month down the line, I am still trying to deal with the pain and it is NOT easy...I will surface...as usual, life has taught me lessons ..some very hard ones...and has allowed me to resurface each time..i hope for the same this time as well...not sure how long i will take, though...

[usha123]

My thoughts are with you. You are a courageous woman.

[itsalouwelylife]

Thank you for your kind words and faith Usha...appreciate it...