Love And Sex

[itsmetbone]

Be aware that the following post is my opinion only, but i am eager to hear the opinions of others

Comments

[spunky420]

hmm... you know, that's very deep, but i have to disagree... love and sex are sooo deeply intertwined!! sex really is used as an expression of love! sure sometimes people use it just for the fun of it, but in all reality, it's all the better when you actually have feelings for the person.
well those are my thoughts!
ambs

Love and Sex

[sadnlonely4eva]

Its me Chelsea... I finally got my comp to let me post a comment. I have to agree with you and the sex issue. It was very thought through, what you said. I have to say that sex is way different then love. I think that when ppl have sex now a days, it is just for the hell of it. NOt because there in love. I think that most girls are used and the guys tell them that they love them so thay can get in there pants... what do you think? Well Grounded still, so talk to you layter... cant wait to hang out when I'm off grounding!!

Cee Babi

Ps Nice Icon thing!

[shot97]

Yes there are plenty of people who put no feeling into the act of sex, perhaps even a majority. But I must disagree with your assertion that love and sex have no correlation. I believe they can, and they should

oh the young and oblivous

[anzealbis]

Apparently you have never been in love, and never had sex. Because you were very wrong about both. No matter who is having sex, there are emotions involved. Even if they think its just fucking and there are no emotions. There are emotions. Its not just pleasure, and its not just to procreate. Even if you don't love the person that you are having sex with, you have emotions during it, or after. Unless of course you have no conscience and no heart. Love is so much more than a feeling. Its not just a feeling. Its also a decision. If you marry someone, guarenteed, there are going to be days when you wake up next to them and you aren't going to like them. But you CHOOSE to love them, so you make up after a fight. Secondly, there are SOOOOOO many different ways of loving someone. Unconditional is not the only way, although its a good way. You don't love your girlfriend the way you love your mother. And you aren't going to love ANY person the same as the last one.... I am too tired to write more right now... To Be Continued.

Re: oh the young and oblivous

[itsmetbone]

I am hopefull for two things. that you are right about me being wrong, and that i get to discover this for myself soon.
btw, thanks for all of your input guys and girls!!!