Poll for my audience.......

[iviemarie]

So about a month ago, I told my ex that I wanted to break the friendship ties because it was too hard for me....so I ask:

Can I still wish him a Happy Birthday tomorrow?

Be honest....and I know you all can be brutally honest.

Comments

Honesty is what I ask for.....

[iviemarie]

and honesty is what I get....

Thanks. I want to but I don't think it would be sending the right message, because it sorta opens the doors of communication again and I still need more time.

Re: Honesty is what I ask for.....

[bramat78]

i would send an email to wish him a happy bday.

but i encourage you not to do it.

much easier said then done :(

Pray silence for the brooder

[corinne979]

STOP STOP STOP STOP STOP. That is my emphatic advice for you. If you were meant to be together, you'd still be playing footsie and taking moonlight walks down by the gazebo. It's over. It hurts. It fucking sucks. An email from you means a return email from him, followed by more return emails until you find yourself tripping over dirty clothes to check your inbox every 3 minutes and howling like a jackass at his barely intelligible (and gramatically unsound) attempts at sophomoric humor. Take it from a girl who's been there, my dear. You won't do yourself any favors by jumping off the cliff again. Let it go. It's shitty, but it's the only way.

Thanks

[iviemarie]

Ouch.....okay, thank you all my 'friends'. I won't, but believe me...today is going to seem like one of those long torturous days when something feels wrong.

But I agree, I was the one who said 'no more' so I can't start it up again.

I Love all you!!!!