sorry for being the cause of some of your arguments. i feel kinda bad that your dad thinks all that stuff. i feel for you too. but you are soo mentally strong and all that stuff you said to him, you really stood up for yourself and that is soo wonderful.
btw...i owe a HUGE thanks to you and im terrible for not thanking you way way way earlier...like when we were still there getting the jobs. you're right about all that stuff. it is all because of you that i have this job and that i'll have the best opportunity to work with you. so THANK YOU SOOO MUCH * 14523687954126589347. and i mean it.
so about the advise part of it all. why not juggle 2 jobs while summer is still in? after we got the job as waitresses, i got a call yest. asking to interview with the rec center. and im still not sure, but im going to the interview and well, we'll see what happens.
know that I LOVE YOU and our friendship means a lot to me. we can have sooo much funn together and i never want to lose that ever. <3
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and I don't wanna go from having 0 jobs to having 2
why not just work more at one??
and I have been accused of becoming....u basically
and I love u and who u are but...ouch.
not really something I wanna hear
I was WAY offended
because who doesn't wanna be their own person??
like just because we have some things in common doesn't mean that I am trying to be u
like I have told u before you are somewhat like a role model to me so yeah I mean it's kinda a given that u are gonna have somewhat of an influence on me
i def get what you mean about being your own person. and as for the influence biz that your dad has all wrong...i mean, and influence is one thing. turning into someone else is way diff. i hope i influence for the better and it def doesnt mean you're a follower in the words of your father. and even if, seriously, people get ideas from others to begin with. everyone does. so hold on to what YOU know is true, HOLD ON till you get through. and im always here to help you get through.
as far as you being intrusive, first off, you're almost like fam (no company), and we go anyways so its not like you'd be taking us out of the way. intrusive, schmintrusive. eww that doesnt work at all. lol
no company is a saying from the ever so famous bessie. member her? anyways it basically means that you are soo close that you arent considered company. you know how company is treated like always on the spot while fam is like do your own thing.
anyways, dont wanna make you feel uncomfy there. but think about it. and it doesnt have to be always, just maybe once in a while...?
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I def think that's what I'll do....or maybe down the road I'll attempt 2 jobs??
idk though
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btw...i owe a HUGE thanks to you and im terrible for not thanking you way way way earlier...like when we were still there getting the jobs. you're right about all that stuff. it is all because of you that i have this job and that i'll have the best opportunity to work with you. so THANK YOU SOOO MUCH * 14523687954126589347. and i mean it.
so about the advise part of it all. why not juggle 2 jobs while summer is still in? after we got the job as waitresses, i got a call yest. asking to interview with the rec center. and im still not sure, but im going to the interview and well, we'll see what happens.
know that I LOVE YOU and our friendship means a lot to me. we can have sooo much funn together and i never want to lose that ever. <3 ( ... )
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and I don't wanna go from having 0 jobs to having 2
why not just work more at one??
and I have been accused of becoming....u basically
and I love u and who u are but...ouch.
not really something I wanna hear
I was WAY offended
because who doesn't wanna be their own person??
like just because we have some things in common doesn't mean that I am trying to be u
like I have told u before you are somewhat like a role model to me so yeah I mean it's kinda a given that u are gonna have somewhat of an influence on me
but trying to BECOME u??
no.
and as for the church thing- I would LOVE it
but u know me...I would feel WAY intrusive
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as far as you being intrusive, first off, you're almost like fam (no company), and we go anyways so its not like you'd be taking us out of the way. intrusive, schmintrusive. eww that doesnt work at all. lol
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sry idk what that means...def confused
and no but the thing is most ppl see chuch as a family thing
and yeah
I would feel awkward and out of place and somewhat...intrusive
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anyways, dont wanna make you feel uncomfy there. but think about it. and it doesnt have to be always, just maybe once in a while...?
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did ur mom offer?
cuz then I would feel better
does she mind actually?
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