The three basic components are: ATTRACT, COMFORT, and SEDUCE. Each of these has three phases, which we have numbered 1 through 3. Here is the full list:

ATTRACT 1 (or A1): Opening
ATTRACT 2 (or A2): Female-to-male attract phase (often called "attracting")
ATTRACT 3 (or A3): Male-to-female attract phase (or "qualifying")
COMFORT 1 (or C1): Connection
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Your Results... Your dating skills are AVERAGE!

You scored a 80 out of a possible 100 points. You’re pretty good with the ladies, but you can be intimidated by a woman who is exceptionally attractive. There are some women out there that you consider to be “out of your league”.

Sometimes when you see a woman you’d like to approach you become ( Read more... )

A Complete Guide to Vibing

Vibing is commonly thought of in the community as “fluff talk,” or just filler in between your routines. Even by people who run completely spontaneous game, there’s never been an in-depth breakdown of vibing.

In this post, I will cover:

1.Beginning vibing: Always having spontaneous conversational material, and solving the ( Read more... )

Empower Your Voice

"Empower Your Voice"

"It's not what you say, it's HOW you say it"

Two people can say the same exact words and get totally opposite reactions. Why? What makes others embrace or reject your words? Well there are several elements of successful delivery and they are very subtle! One of them is how you speak with your body, but we will ( Read more... )

A New Model of Attraction

Dimitri of theApproach has a great new post on ASF detailing his model of attraction. I think every community guy should read it, because it goes into concepts which are very important but largely ignored on ASF.

The big concept of this post is that attraction is composed of value and deservedness. Value has already been ( Read more... )

The Transition to Natural Game, Part I

I've met my share of brothers from the community. After sarging with them and watching them in the field, I have seen the same exact things over and over. They all run nearly the exact type of game, and have the same problems. I am not criticizing other people's models, I am just providing a analysis of the ( Read more... )

My style -- How I peacock

The first key to peacocking is subtlety. Yes, subtlety.

The point of peacocking is to wear something unusual so that you stand out. This is for a variety of reasons: you attract more attention, girls have some reason that they can say why they like you so much more than other guys, etc. HOWEVER, you don't have to dress like ( Read more... )

Asian guys of California!

As a white girl attending UCLA who prefers asian guys, here are the problems I have had in dating them. If you want a white girl (and contrary to popular belief, there are actually quite a few attractive ladies that prefer asians), don't do these things:

1. Be super shy and never make a move, even if the girl has flirted ( Read more... )

Sticking Points of Asian Men When It Comes to Dating, Part 1

The more I teach, the more a pattern I start seeing in my Asian clientele. It's certainly not all inconclusive in that every Asian male has the same sticking points, but I definitely see certain sticking points and/or limiting beliefs that are consistently hampering Asian guys in their ( Read more... )

He'd gotten her number from a mutual friend, and asked for a date. His efforts to sweet-talk her didn't go well. He was cocky and full of "intellectual jive," she told me. But she agreed to meet him for lunch ( Read more... )