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[jasmina_7]

Another day, another depression.... I'm, not depressed, I'm just disappointed I guess,...in me, in the choices I've made lately, in some of the people I care about... Sigh... I'm just tired of feeling like this. I should be feeling great, not like some lost forlorn puppy... I hate how badly I want him back.. I know that there's a million of guys

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Definitely go for the cat

[sunshy82]

They don't bitch, they don't complain. They come rub up against you when you're sad...and if you're lucky they even snuggle with you. They don't need ego feeding and they don't need sex. All they want from you is food, love and to empty their box every couple days.

I know how it sucks. I've been there too, it just seems to me that he doesn't want to commit. I don't know what his reasons are but I believe there is more to it then "You hurt me, I can't be a relationship right now".

You do what feels right for you Jas. If you want to wait for him to come around, do so. But if you feel it won't change and that you're wasting your time...move on. I think he isn't doing anything about because he knows you're right there waiting. Yeah shitty game they play but they are men.

If there's anything I can do to help...you know where I'm at. Take Care my dear!

Re: Definitely go for the cat

[jasmina_7]

Guess what? You're right.. there's got to be more to it than I hurt him and he can't be in a relationship right now... When it comes down to it, he just doesn't want to be in a relationship... And you know what? I feel like I AM wasting my time... now if I can only convince myself on how to stop...

Re: Definitely go for the cat

[sunshy82]

Letting go is the hard part. You should listen to a song called Orestes by A Perfect Circle, he talks exactly about that....show me the way to let go, show me the way to forgive.

I think it's just a matter of cutting your ties with him and let time heal the wound. I know you might want to stay friends with him...and if you do there's nothing wrong with that at all, but remember it will make it hard to loose those feelings towards him.

Hopefully by you turning away, he'll open up his eyes and snap out of it and realize what he's about to loose out on. I just hope for him it won't be too late when he realizes that.

See you tonight hun...be as drop dead gorgeous as you can be, we'll go break some hearts. That's all I can do anyways since I already own a heart and I really don't want to break that one! :p

[climbintreez]

How about I say ditto to all that has been said and here's to hoping that you had a GREAT, hehe, night tonight.

On how you stop it...I don't think you do. You just try to start building a "new love life" and sooner or later the pain is less/or something. I dunno, I still hurt from my last "love" so not sure if I'm the one to talk. But I am trying.

You keep yo head up!!!

[climbintreez]

I meant to tell you before now but...D'oh I forgot. I sent you an email like maybe last Thursday or Friday, prolly Friday. In the subject line I wrote -- It's Climbintreez -- but my guess is that you deleted without noticing the climbintreez.

It was just a reply to a comment you made on my journal, no big whoop.

[jasmina_7]

Hi. I got your msg. I sent you an email back. Just wondering if you got it hun. Hope all is well, things are crazy fucked up as usual... take care!