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[jentle]

SEX

so today as gotten slightly better thanks only to talking to another female about sex. However, she is sharing her lesbian experiences while I share my heterosexual experiences. Who said the queers and the straights could not relate and communicate

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[imyourrocknroll]

i myself am a feminist and i like being dominated. and fucked from behind as well. i also like other "degrading things".
the thing about that is it seems as if you like to be in control in your day to day life you have the opposite view when it comes to sex.
like most of the men that go to dominatrixes are men who are ceos of companies or judges or some sort of job where you have a ton of control over things. i dont think it makes you a bad feminist to like to be dominated in bed. most feminists i know actually do.

[jentle]

I was hoping I'd get a reply from you Mel and I appreciate it :-)

I also agree with your latter statement about men who go to dominatrixes.

[mamygirl]

I think it's pretty typical for people to play a totally different role in the bedroom (or wherever you happen to be, haha). I'm soooo the dominating person in my relationship (life, heh), and perhaps not as devout a feminist as you, but much more than most people I know - yet I prefer being fairly degraded during sex. It's nice to feel powerless once in a while, especially when you know in your heart that the person loves you and wouldn't ever really hurt you. I won't go into details you probably reealy don't want to hear, but I totally know what you're saying. I'm incredibly left wing as far as sex goes - it's amazing how it can affec tthe rest of your life.

Yay packages! Seriously it's like my favorite thing to get a package. I'm glad you're feeling a little better.

Amy

[mamygirl]

yep. that's me. degenerate. lol.

just don't tell my daddy. ;)

[jentle]

It's nice to feel powerless once in a while, especially when you know in your heart that the person loves you and wouldn't ever really hurt you.

I could not agree more. Which is why I stated I would never do sexual extremes with a stranger.
- Wow this entry is awesome, I'm meeting more and more sexually "degenerate" women. ha!

-and about the package he is all "I sent you a package while on tour" and I'm like "well you got home before the package arrived, why didnt you just give me the stuff when you got home?" and he replied, "well, it's fun getting stuff in the mail.. Don't you think?" In his letter he included in his package, he told me I have to write him back via-snail mail to his PO box.

[mrsbuzz]

i have been fascinated by gael garcia bernal since the day i saw y tu mama tambien three or four years ago. he's beautiful.

[jentle]

about three years ago my ex rented "y tu mama tambien" but I never got a chance to watch it with him.

He made me raise an eyebrow in "The Motorcycle diaries" and then I read that he was philosophy major which made me want to look into his roles in movies more AND then in "Bad Education".. Jesus Fucking christ can he pull off drag!

[mrsbuzz]

wow. i haven't seen bad education but will have to check it out. did you ever see y tu mama tambien? if you don't mind subtitled movies (which i'm guessing you don't if you watched motorcycle diaries), you def. should watch it.

[xlabrysx]

Jesus he makes a sexy drag queen. Swoon.

[sweetscorpion]

I guess I am not informed much on feminisim but I am not sure how it relates to sex. I mean, isn't it a state of mind, and that has nothing to do with what is pleasureable in the bed, right? And by the way, since we are talking about sex here, you are one of the first women I have heard admit (other than myself) that girl on top isn't all that great. My friends think it is such a joke that I don't like it.....hmmmm..

[sweetscorpion]

I just don't feel anything that great you know. Not to mention that I don't find it that comfortable, I can think of many many other positions I would rather do than this one. Everyone goes on and on about being able to control everything and make it feel good for yourself so maybe I just am not that talented (which I doubt ;), but it is just....blah to me. I must the be the opposite of all those feminists because I love sex where a man is controling and dominent, when they know what they are doing it is incredible and there is something hot about a guy who can take care of you sexually....they fuck up with everything else (ha ha) let them get a chance to redeem themselves :) But like I said I have a lot of friends that rave on and on about being on top, meh, to each their own, I will stick to the bottom.

[jentle]

I guess I am not informed much on feminisim but I am not sure how it relates to sex. I mean, isn't it a state of mind, and that has nothing to do with what is pleasureable in the bed, right?

Right. However, a lot of feminists (not all of course, I know quite a few "pro-sex" femininsts) find certain positions, certain sexual ideologies and pornography to basically be the root of all evil and the oppressor of all women, when ironically - according to statistics, more women view (internet) pornography than males.

Why do they think it's such a joke? I don't like being on top for several reasons. What are yours?

[reeshballs]

Jen where have you been all my life? I've been to sex after sex party and not seen you at a one of them!

[jentle]

Reesha! We will see each other soon I promise!

I was planning on coming to Errin's sex party, but yesterday was the worst day of my summer thus far, and I could not motivate myself to do anything (even though it probably would've helped).

Lets just throw our own sex party.