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[jezebelle]

Why is it that when people go to a BDSM club they lose all sense of what it socially acceptable behaviour. On Saturday night I went to chains after having been on a shopping tour all day. I went for one reason and one reason alone, I had said that I would hostess there for Joe, I have missed two times both because I have been ill. Usually I look

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[haiiro_neko]

Thought I'd pipe up and say something as well.
Was ticked off at the way this guy spoke about you guys (and us).
Who the hell does he think he is to pass judgement on people he's never met before like this?
And how dare he talk about A like that! If we (both A and I being the vanillas there) didn't want to be there, we wouldn't. We're there because we want to support our partners and friends.
If it were up to me (good thing it isn't) I wouldn't invite people like this into the club again to save it from the cancer they take with them wherever they go.
Good luck to him on his quest to find a "dominant mentor" I say. If he uses this attitude when he approaches any decent mentor in the scene he's not going to get much of an audience.

"Personally, I'd rather do without than compromise to someone so arrogant and self-centred."
Why? Because you're tired of seeing it in the mirror everyday?

*grizzle*

[natalya_dostova]

Yes you were a bit pointy with the top-puller-downer, but considering how tired you were, it was remarkably restrained. I appreciated you fixing my top *hugs* You've apologised to the person in question, if he can't accept it, it's not your problem. You did the right thing. A
Can I ask that the post to the under 30's be put behind an LJ cut? it's rather long... And yes, the supercilious earwig is a right wanker and has given newbies a bad name!

Long winded rant about respect and relationships:

[catehayward]

Social psychologists did all this great research a few years back on why relationships go bad. The theory is that there are three groups; Dominant, Submissive and in between. (I won't insult intelligence of your average reader by pointing out that its not related to the BDSM style of Dom and sub, but just in case there's one

[headzor]

Yikes :-(

Here is hoping there are lots of nice newbies to make things better over there