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[jocelynthepink]

I don't like being a party house anymore. I am sick of random people showing up uninvited and drinking my booze and trashing my apartment and being loud and stupid. I am also sick of my boyfriend inviting people over and giving them my booze and trashing our apartment and being loud and stupid. I wish I lived in a nice place like Michelle.

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[ladykate1980]

Hey girlie you can come hang out at my place anytime! It's right around the corner, quiet, and we have a HUGE trampoline and lotsa fun games and stuff. I'd love it if you came over to hang out!! I'm home @ 8pm every nite and you're welcome anytime.

[onesweetgirl]

Just keep all the lights off and hide under the kitchen table curled aorund your booze whenever you're home. That'll show 'em!! ;-)

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[pirate_steve]

Michelle doesn't just let anybody in her house. They have to be respectful of her and Jon's property. If stuff like that worries you, put your foot down. If the people in question don't like it, time to switch to a higher clientele of friends. Those that respect you and your belongings. Sometimes somebody has to be the bitch especially if one is too accomodating. Before Michelle moved back in with Jon, he and I tore everything up because he didn't care. Now, out of respect for her and my friendship I don't. Good luck.

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[jocelynthepink]

This is very good advice. I doubt Jeff would go along with it, but good advice nonetheless.

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[seeds_of_peace]

well... we could always go partying at other people's houses :) That's what Michelle and Jon do

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[onesweetgirl]

You're goddamn right about that! I used to live in a house with 11 other kids when I was in college, and it was a damn zoo. Slowly, kids started moving out and eventually there were only about 4 of them left on the top floor. They all had real jobs and they were just sick of everyone "stopping by" smoking weed and getting wasted in the house while they were trying to do work or homework, and generally being a pain in the ass. So they started locking the door and you had to call before you came over at which point they could tell you if they were busy or not. Except me. I got a key, and I was allowed over whenever i felt like it because i rock.

[onesweetgirl]

Also, consider getting a seperate mini fridge for your shit in your room. (A lock on the door helps too) this goes a long way to keeping people from running off with your shit, or hgelping themselves to a beer that isn't theirs. Everyone thinks they can just yoink one and it's no biggie, but when 20 people do it, suddenly there's none left for the person that paid for them and it blows.

[jocelynthepink]

It would be nice, but we've looked into it, and minifridges are surprisingly expensive.

For Jeff's birthday we spent $200 on liquor, mixers, etc., and left a donation cup ... we got $3.