The Room thing.

[jotuba]

Beware, this is poly stuff, so if you're going to go into the 'mono is the only way to go' stuff, just don't read it, please...

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[kaotik_kitty420]

This is a touchy situation, I've been there before. Have you thought of talking to C about it? Maybe if she is aware that she is doing it she might do something to change it. I wish I had better advice for you sweetheart but that's all that I can suggest. Good luck...hope it all works out. *hug*

[jotuba]

Actually it seems that avoiding talking about it was better, when we did talk about it today I was trying to be frank and honest but keep any emotion out of it which is the only way I can figure out how to talk to her, but it quickly turned into a very aggressive conversation on her side, so I just gave in and stopped talking. It was at a friend's birthday party, and honestly, I don't think anything I could say could bring her to actually care about my side of it, nothing against her, she's just not that kind of person.

I don't really know why she chose that time to (as it feels from my side) confront me, but probably because she felt strong. *shrug*

I don't know that I was actually expecting advice, but I do appreciate your concern. *hug* thanks! I've just realized that the longer i keep stuff in my head the worse I feel. heh

[kaotik_kitty420]

Ah yeah those sort of people are really hard to deal with. I know lots of people like that.

You're welcome. *hugs* Yeah I understand about keeping it in your head too long. That's what journals are for, right?