ok so we had to pick something to write a position paper on for english, preferably something we feel strongly about. i choose abstinence. and i was thinking that itd be cool to see where other people stand on the subject. so
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-Virgin(surprised?, probably not) -I dont really care.. if I meet a girl I like enough.. yeah, I'll "jump" -WTF is a V-Card??? Like a promise to yourself to not have sex?
I did my presentation on affirmative action last year... if you care.. it sucked though.
first of all, a v card is your virginity. v card. virgin card. get it?
secondly, theres nothing to be ashamed about if your a virgin. your a kool guy whos genuinly thoughtful and usually not annoying. the fact that you can resist everything and wait is worthy of serious respect.
third, if you get ur hair cut, dont get it cut like you did last time. seriously. my vote goes for something short but not buzzed
-Yeah, i'm probably NEVER cutting my hair like that again.. i'm probaby just going to get it trimmed now. But I might get it cut short this summer(sans sophomore year shortness).. that way if I dont like it, well.. no one has to see it.
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anonymous
February 25 2005, 02:34:44 UTC
*Actually, no. *Again, no. *it's something I respect. If you have the willpower to keep it, then by all means.
don't just have sex just to save you've had sex. find that one person that you love [whether that means within marriage or not] wait until you're ready.
my two cents
anonymous
February 25 2005, 02:35:47 UTC
Not- Wish still was I think it is something that is good for people. It's not something to fool around with, i found that out. Even if you think you really love them. You better be sure you are ready and will never have regrets. Once you have sex, you can't reverse it and if you begin having regrets, it's too late, you have to live with them. I regret what I did and wish to never repeat the mistake. What you think is love at the time could end as suddenly as it started. In highschool, no love is forever, so if you have sex with someone, you must live knowing that at any moment you WILL lose them and if you can't handle loosing someone that you have sex with, don't do it.
Re: my two centsjthesoccerman03February 25 2005, 02:57:42 UTC
i think id have to agree with you. love in highschool is very transitory so anything as permanently affecting as sex does not fit in. i also think thats a good way to live life (knowing that at any moment you WILL lose them). you gotta be grateful for what youve got cause it can be gone faster than you can count.
virgin. damn proud of that shit. i havnet given into any temptation(s) i highly respect the vcardedness.
if you're going to have sex with someone, it should be with someone you trust severly and can picture yourself spending the rest of your life with. no joke. i really despise the people that pressure others to have sex though. and even more those that give into the pressure. how does this sound when u tell people ur shit.."i had sex with someone because if i didn't then they would have dumped me because i didn't show them the extent of how much i loved them" ...in my humble opinion. it sounds completely lame. no offense to anyone. just my opinion.
pressuring someone into sex is bullshit. the odds are that if someone tells you to have sex with them to prove you love them, then they dont love you at all. so dont do it. sex should be between two people who love eachother and are completely committed to eachother
i think your right thou, it is something that haunts me. im not sorry about it being with elizabeth but i think it would have been much better to have waited.
its a pretty sad society where someone gets ridiculed just because they arent having sex. that is something that should be respected not scorned.
the test driving a car thing is a good point but i also see sex is something that has a more special conotation the first time. i think it would have been awesome to go through that whole first time experimental thing with my wife.
sex is definitly a big deal and should never be taken lightly. no matter what you decide, make sure you consider it fully and not just make some drunken decision that ur gonna regret.
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-Virgin(surprised?, probably not)
-I dont really care.. if I meet a girl I like enough.. yeah, I'll "jump"
-WTF is a V-Card??? Like a promise to yourself to not have sex?
I did my presentation on affirmative action last year... if you care.. it sucked though.
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secondly, theres nothing to be ashamed about if your a virgin. your a kool guy whos genuinly thoughtful and usually not annoying. the fact that you can resist everything and wait is worthy of serious respect.
third, if you get ur hair cut, dont get it cut like you did last time. seriously. my vote goes for something short but not buzzed
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-Yeah, i'm probably NEVER cutting my hair like that again.. i'm probaby just going to get it trimmed now. But I might get it cut short this summer(sans sophomore year shortness).. that way if I dont like it, well.. no one has to see it.
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*Again, no.
*it's something I respect. If you have the willpower to keep it, then by all means.
don't just have sex just to save you've had sex.
find that one person that you love [whether that means within marriage or not]
wait until you're ready.
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I think it is something that is good for people. It's not something to fool around with, i found that out.
Even if you think you really love them. You better be sure you are ready and will never have regrets. Once you have sex, you can't reverse it and if you begin having regrets, it's too late, you have to live with them. I regret what I did and wish to never repeat the mistake. What you think is love at the time could end as suddenly as it started. In highschool, no love is forever, so if you have sex with someone, you must live knowing that at any moment you WILL lose them and if you can't handle loosing someone that you have sex with, don't do it.
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damn proud of that shit. i havnet given into any temptation(s)
i highly respect the vcardedness.
if you're going to have sex with someone, it should be with someone you trust severly and can picture yourself spending the rest of your life with. no joke.
i really despise the people that pressure others to have sex though.
and even more those that give into the pressure.
how does this sound when u tell people ur shit.."i had sex with someone because if i didn't then they would have dumped me because i didn't show them the extent of how much i loved them"
...in my humble opinion. it sounds completely lame. no offense to anyone. just my opinion.
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its a pretty sad society where someone gets ridiculed just because they arent having sex. that is something that should be respected not scorned.
the test driving a car thing is a good point but i also see sex is something that has a more special conotation the first time. i think it would have been awesome to go through that whole first time experimental thing with my wife.
sex is definitly a big deal and should never be taken lightly. no matter what you decide, make sure you consider it fully and not just make some drunken decision that ur gonna regret.
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