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[jtthomas]

we were supposed to be eating dinner at my house that night. we were celebrating something, i don't even remember what it was now, but it was something very miniscule. it was really just an excuse for us to be together and to feel like there was some special occasion. i was getting dinner ready, sporting an oh-so-homosexual-looking apron. i had

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[behrjason]

I wish he hadn't left any impression on you. If you ask me he was just too insecure with himself and desperately needed to take it out on someone else. It's really cliche to say, but people have a tendency to throw their misery around. I know from experience. I'd say don't let his words get you down, but that's just words and I can't imagine words could possibly substitute for feelings. I don't know what my point is except that he's a dick and you're better off without him. You're better off without anyone friend or boyfriend who would intentionally try to bring you down. Good riddance. I hope you are okay.

[jtthomas]

words aren't just words. at least not to me. words can mean so much and can help so much, if used in the correct way. thank you very much, i appreciate it. i am okay, thanks, i'm feeling a bit better.

[j_robinson]

He obviously needed a good kick in the ass. Even if he wanted to break off there was no need for the way he handled it or for calling again just to inflict his insanity on you.
You can do a lot better than him while he will only do worse. He never deserved you, clearly.

[jtthomas]

i agree with this. calling was completely unnecessary.

thank you, really.

[j_robinson]

I'm the one who should thank you for adding me back.

[jtthomas]

of course i'd add you back.

[k_russell]

This made me a little angry, which is interesting considering we don't know each other very well and the fact that I don't know this other man at all. There is nothing wrong with being complicated and emotional, and only shows that he was simple and restrained. However, it doesn't make his words hurt any less or stop you from questioning yourself. I hope he stays gone too, and that you can find someone who will appreciate you for who you really are.

[jtthomas]

thank you, i appreciated this comment. maybe being complicated and emotional is wrong, though. maybe i need to try to fix that.

[k_russell]

But maybe it's not. Maybe it's just a part of who you are. Take it from someone who is probably a little too emotional herself. We all have flaws that can never hurt to be worked on, but don't beat yourself up over what he said to you. He couldn't "handle" you, but that's his problem. Not yours.

[sophiab]

I say we have a girlie day and forget about him. We'll go get manicures and pedicures. Go shopping and have lunch. What do you say?

[jtthomas]

i think that sounds great.

[sophiab]

It's a girlie date then. :-*

[sandvoss]

Aw, I don't really know anything other then that update so I'm just gonna say I'm sorry. And if saying third times the charm when you clean to get your mind on something else helps, I won't hurt you. Haha.

[jtthomas]

haha, you're cute. thank you, though, because third times the charm may, in fact, help.