Comments | juicebottle: Observational Ponderings.

juicebottle

Observational Ponderings.

Mar 21, 2007 12:05

Now that I have had a couple relationships, I have started to notice an unusual trend in myself ( Read more... )

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cassu_bean March 21 2007, 01:42:21 UTC

I haven't really had thoughts like that much.... I guess I see the person for who they are before their appearance / fashion etc.
Having said that though, I have always loved swooning over guys with broad shoulders wearing button-up shirts and wrist bands. (I am t3h lucky that Rowan has all of those things.)
XD

juicebottle March 21 2007, 01:55:17 UTC

Actually thats a good point right there. The last two girls I fancied I met online, so I already fancied them BEFORE I knew what they looked like. :/
Maybe that has something to do with it.

thechuckface March 21 2007, 02:04:50 UTC

Yeah, I'm constantly surprised at the guys I find attractive, and even moreso the guys who find me attractive enough to hit on me. I tend to go for strong, broad shouldered, short haired guys as my ideal, but that has nothing to do with who I actually become involved with!=P For example, I was at a neighbour's barbeque, and this guy showed up with long blond dreads, an average slim build, piercings in his lip, eyebrow, and nose, and guaged earings - and I was totally attracted to him! Never thought I could be, but man if he wasn't hot!
So yeah, in conclusion: In my experience, looks have very little to do with it, especially types of looks. Chemistry is everything.

Grammar... thechuckface March 21 2007, 02:06:47 UTC

(Should read: "...with whom I actually become involved!")

Re: Grammar... juicebottle March 21 2007, 02:28:06 UTC

Actually, if you read back to earlier entries, its been a long time since I had one of those, "Oh wow she's hot!" type chemical attractions. Years even.
I only get to the stage of that kind of attraction well into a relationship. :/

thechuckface March 21 2007, 02:31:06 UTC

Aw... Well, maybe it means you're about due for it to happen again! We can hope!

plasticacid March 21 2007, 08:58:32 UTC

What I find physically attractive in guys varies so much that I don't bother identifying specifics that might/need to cross over. And it's usually (as corny as it'll sound) their personality that is the deciding factor. Eg. I had a crush on a guy in my college writer's class, he was quite good looking but I never spoke to him. The 30 second interaction I had with him DEMOLISHED the attraction I held cause he was an ass.

My only turn off is major hairy men ._. they freak me out.

mistresscolleen March 21 2007, 09:01:34 UTC

my bf is the skinniest guy ive dated. not to say been with ive been with way skinnier but we were freinds first and could finish eachothers sentances but unfortuantely i wouldnt marry so he could stay in the country so when he found someone who would she cut off contact. they divorced after she got prego and cheated on him (kid is half asian yes its his) and we started talking again and we knew we could fall totally for eachother but something stopped us. we are both too cautious with things that seem too good. but i never went shopping for the 120 asian because of him. i almost rejected my bf because he was 140 lol but he was just as crazy as i was and i was initially going to just play with him and toss him back but we are too alike for most people to get. so i fattened him up :) lol jk i like to cook. but before those two all the guys i had been with were all over 200lbs or big and burly. now i have a medium burly one rar! its 5 am im rambling. but yeah i can see how you would sway like that. ive gotten over my asian male fetish ( ... )