Comments | julie_grrl135: frankie... (it's all sad...just a warning)

julie_grrl135

frankie... (it's all sad...just a warning)

Sep 30, 2005 00:29

you know...i am listening to the mix of music that i made for my cousin, Frankie's Rosary, and of course it made me think of her ( Read more... )

frankie

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elixaduiii September 30 2005, 12:56:01 UTC

oh, darling.x

julie_grrl135 October 2 2005, 17:59:01 UTC

i miss you and your yummy looking dinners...

x

neorevolution September 30 2005, 19:40:57 UTC

I think we all get that realization in spurts. A whole life is hard to understand the immediate moment that it is lost.

julie_grrl135 October 2 2005, 17:54:25 UTC

that's true...otherwise we wouldn't be able to cope, huh?

you are very right in that its hard to understand...I know there must've been a reason, and i prolly can't see it, but I know it will get better... it always does.

shadowycorner September 30 2005, 19:53:09 UTC

Awww, I'm so sorry. I understand how you feel. But don't be sad...:)

julie_grrl135 October 2 2005, 17:51:03 UTC

thanks. I know...i just had a breakdown moment, ya know? I will try not to be. :)

wiredclover October 1 2005, 05:55:56 UTC

::hug:: I don't think that you ever stop grieving for someone you truly loved.

julie_grrl135 October 2 2005, 17:50:07 UTC

thanks, i think you're right. I know it will get better, hopefully sooner rather than later.

wishes96 October 2 2005, 18:55:18 UTC

It is hard. I remember being numb. I am approaching the 10th anniversarry of my dad's death and i still break down. What helped me was knowing that people die when they have learned what they are on earth to learn. my dad HAD accoplished everything he wanted to. As much as i scream about how unfair it is that good people go and bad people stay, i know that while he was here he was happy and amazing, and that i will see him in my dreams and one day, hopefully in a very long time, i will see him again. It is ok to still grieve for frankie, for anyone, there is no time limit. When you grow up* for example... When I went away to school I had dealt with my dad's passing and was fine. Then things would happen and i would expirience his death ina new way and i would need to grieve. And I would be okay. Know that she would want you to be happy and live your life to the fullest. Because she is not here on eart, does not mean she isn't all around you or watching or helping you out.

julie_grrl135 October 3 2005, 03:44:12 UTC

thank you meg. that is very comforting.

Then things would happen and i would expirience his death in a new way and i would need to grieve.

I had never thought of this before, but when I read it, it was absolutely true. That is exactly what happens...

I guess you have more experience than i do in this subject. I'm still sorry about your dad, and I will pray for you.