Not sure how this relates

[julyflower]

I really would like to maintain focus and not have to worry about these "I want man" thoughts.

What is so necessary about cock?

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[d_c_m]

What is so necessary about cock?
It feels good. ;)

And no, you do not need a man, but oh they are nice to have around. :)

[julyflower]

I just feel like I should be self-sufficient, but being single for the first time since I met all you people is just weird and it makes me lonely. Surely there is someone else in the world of the male gender who feels the same way and thinks I'm tolerable. Hmm.

[d_c_m]

I know what you mean, but I would offer that before you can go into a relationship you must be really ready for it and be happy in yourself. Enjoy being with yourself. Really. Once that happens, well a good person will easily come along. :)

[323_gtx]

As a person (some of you think otherwise I'm sure...LOL) that is trying to deal with said topic, I have to agree...seems like a long road, but there is an end to it. *there is right?*

[archangl23]

And this requires you not be single because..... ? heheheh.

Try holding out for someone who may or not ever be available sometime. Life's just full of interesting levels of ... I don't know, something. (Clearly, I'm not feeling terribly eloquent today. Must be something in the water.)

But, yeah, don't feel too bad. I run into the same issues, in reverse.

[julyflower]

I suppose I just got way too used to being attached. Weirdness. I am having the time of my life just getting with me and being all selfish and concentrating on myself, but my mind keeps interrupting and redirecting to this desire for romance thing. I dunno. And for the record, I'm not eloquent ever these days. Words just don't work for me anymore. It's something I've learned to accept and be amused at until the verbal expression flow returns. Heh.

You-good. I should have discovered you sooner. (There are no implications there other than just what it says) *wink*

[archangl23]

I feel you. There are days where, even when I've accomplished every thing I want and can say my life has moved forward, I'm miserable that I'm ending it by going to bed alone. That being said, I've also tried to fix that by putting someone there. In my experience (when it's for something more than sex), that ends up even worse by comparison.

I know that there doesn't seem to be much advice in there, but I guess the best I can say is: Take it as it comes. All timing has it's purpose once you get to the result. Have faith in the Universe.

[julyflower]

I dunno why it's so hard to remember that the Universe has *everything* I need under control. I'm a silly girl who forgets these things sometimes.

Thanks. :)

[danielmc]

hey lady.
i SO understand what you have been saying in this post.
believe me. recent crap and all.
but being true and loving yourself without conditions is a grand first step.

friended you, FYI.

[julyflower]

*hug* I love your icon!!!!

Thanks. You are so cool, and I never get to talk to you enough. Always too many people around. You wanna do coffee sometime?

[moonandserpent]

This may or may not be an appropriate time to mention this: but I lost your phone #.

[julyflower]

haha! It's okay...it might be a few days til i have more minutes, but it's (317)-373-8290 these days.

*love!*

[solestria]

Love!

And yeah; I don't want the cock per se, but I've lately been missing all the rest of it, at a time when I seriously don't have the time, energy, or healthy sexuality to pursue romance right now.

Let me know if you find an antidote.

[julyflower]

Will do. Thanks for sharing in my suffering. :)

Miss you. *hugggggs*