I'm going to have to agree with your friend Nikki on this one. After this final time, you should give up. I know it seems harsh since you like this person a lot, but you need to have some respect for yourself as well. Speaking from experience, the sooner you stop chasing people who give you mixed signals, the better off you'll be.
Dude, don't give up or not give up right now. Try to be content dating her right now. Girls don't always want to go on a date and instantly go to boyfriend/girlfriend. I know you have been friends with her for a while, and I can totally relate to where you are at right now. The thing is, if she goes on a date with you and is interested, she isn't going to go fuck around with some other dude the next day. I always got really caught up with the bf/gf title, and I almost lost a girl because of it. Girls have lists of boyfriends they have had, and number of people they have had sex with, and they don't like the lists to get long, because then depending on their level of susceptibility to society the feel like a slut. A girl can be completely interested in you and just not want to become boyfriend/girlfriend at that moment. It doesn't mean they aren't interested in you. The best analogy I can think of is if you had been dating a girl for a year and then she kept asking you if you were gonna get married. You could be completely
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I'm going to have to agree with your friend Nikki on this one. After this final time, you should give up. I know it seems harsh since you like this person a lot, but you need to have some respect for yourself as well. Speaking from experience, the sooner you stop chasing people who give you mixed signals, the better off you'll be.
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Whatever the case, good luck, Joshy.
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