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[kalliejenn2]

yes, there is a reason why this post isn't on my wedding filter, and it is this

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[lillibet]

Let me be the first to say that while I would love to celebrate with you on your big day, I will still be just as happy for you if I'm not invited. Weddings are tricky things and you have to draw the circle somewhere. I do hope we have a chance to whoop it up, Firstie style, in the end.

[sapphira_altair]

You both are very loved and I'm sure everyone will understand, regardless of whether or not they're invited. :) As long as you are happy, that's what matters!

[valadil]

"but let me just reassure you, it isn't because we don't love you"

Lies! I have nothing but contempt for our B-list.

:-P

[salmonpi]

I'm not sure on the etiquette, but another possibility would be to put off such a party until a couple months after the wedding so you don't need to plan much of it before the wedding.

[plumtreeblossom]

You totally should NOT be worrying about this! You have to work with what you've got, and I can't think of anyone (of Firsties, that is) who wouldn't understand if you couldn't invite them. Please don't bother about inviting beowabbit and me -- he doesn't do weddings, and I'd just be all lonely at the dateless people's table anyway. :-) Have a wonderful time on your special day, and we'll be there to party with you another time.