I can draw a lot of things, But I still can’t draw your interest

Jun 25, 2005 18:59

i was trying to resist writing in here, but im on the net, bored, and have to do something!

why is it that we are so obsessed with finding boyfriends, or being in relationships? i've noticed that some people just dont have the ability to stop, to resist the urge to find a boyfriend. they, ultimately, flirt with the nearest, breathing, male-looking ( Read more... )

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digital_ashes June 25 2005, 09:23:55 UTC
some people need that constant reassurance
they can't find it within themselves, so they seek it from an outside source...sad really
but it's also part of being young, for most people
most of my friends went through bfs/gfs every week or so back then
i like you attitude about it all though, you are wise beyond your years
never settle...ever

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kate_yeah June 25 2005, 09:29:09 UTC
Fair enough that some people need constant reassurance, but to me thats what friends are for. you may look absolutely horrible, but instead of lying to you or tellin you you look bad, they help you.
A boyfriend does that too...but in a different way. they reassure you that you are special. Everyone loves to feel wanted, which is cool. i can understand that. but when you are sacrificing your closest friends for the chance at a guy, thats when it goes too far. and thats what these people do, constantly.
I dont think im wise...maybe because ive realised how important a few people are to me that im able to stand back and analyse the situation, unlike others my age.

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digital_ashes June 25 2005, 09:33:28 UTC
you might not think you are, but you are
girls are different than guys about the stepping on friends toes part
girls are inherently evil you see =)

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kate_yeah June 25 2005, 09:36:57 UTC
haha inherently evil? now you've done it, you'll have half the world population chasing after you...
girls are only different about steppin on each others toes in the way we do it, guys do it too...but they sort out any difficulties or problems with fists. girls? most bitch and cause fights. it's easier for me to grin and bear it than cause problems, i dont want to risk losing friends, even when they drive me crazy 90% of the time. it truly makes me wonder why others are so happy to aste a friendship or relationship on the next whimsical thing to cross their path. maybe they arent as true and close friends as i thought. wow, that was a bit of a ramble.

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rubist June 26 2005, 01:49:52 UTC
beginnings of love hey kateman. a wise man (or maybe just a drunk arsehole on the beach) once said "drugs will fuck you up, but love will kill you." I stand by that.

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kate_yeah June 26 2005, 03:17:50 UTC
yeah, probably was just a drunk arsehole, but its true.

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