Your turn came around in early 2009 - you had a very real possibility of pursuing all the things you want with someone who is, frankly, wonderful. And as far as I know you, very well suited to you.
It is your life to judge where you went wrong - I don't understand the choices you ultimately made this year, but I certainly am not going to tell you they were the right or wrong ones. Only you can do that. I can tell you how to change it though, both with yourself, with him, and with everyone you know because it is THE most simple, universal truth of being a human being.
Honesty. Be honest. Be true to yourself, be genuine to those you know, and fill your life with as many people dedicated to that principle as you can and cherish them for it even when it puts you at odds with them. It leaves you vulnerable, but you will never grow stronger without opening up your vulnerabilities and testing them with worthy people.
Actually, the things you say and do can fix things, and that is exactly the "how" you are missing. Be honest. Be present in people's lives. Let them decide if you are "worth" spending time with, don't assume it for them. You do them a disservice by forcing them away unnecssarily
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A relayed message from HE who was not namedcloudsoloDecember 8 2009, 18:01:19 UTC
He asked me to make this reply, since he finally reasoned some things out. He asks that you read this and consider what he is saying and don't dismiss it outright. He hopes it doesn't make you cry, but he is afraid he might, and for that he is sorry
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It is your life to judge where you went wrong - I don't understand the choices you ultimately made this year, but I certainly am not going to tell you they were the right or wrong ones. Only you can do that. I can tell you how to change it though, both with yourself, with him, and with everyone you know because it is THE most simple, universal truth of being a human being.
Honesty. Be honest. Be true to yourself, be genuine to those you know, and fill your life with as many people dedicated to that principle as you can and cherish them for it even when it puts you at odds with them. It leaves you vulnerable, but you will never grow stronger without opening up your vulnerabilities and testing them with worthy people.
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