You may have the better side of things on OKC, given that you're actually getting hits. As a Guy in the Bay, I do not get people looking at my profile, and I'm not convinced that there's a way to change that.
Use Quickmatch. The girls you rate highly will get messages that then will spiral into their rating you and other guys and then a larger subset of girls you'd like and guys like you will be using the site. That's my best suggestion, anyway. I haven't really done that but that's because there's already sort of a feed of guys I like and girls like me running round in circles here.
It doesn't work. The ratios here are horribly whacked; as far as I can tell, "this person likes you!" is not an adequate reason to do anything when you're already getting 30-40 messages a day.
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