when i like a girl a lot, normally i hit her over the head and drag her back to my cave/cheap apartment by the hair.
and i thought i was fucking busy at work! sounds like a fucking crazy job, dude. being a manager is ok, but its a lot of fucking work and stress. the only really good thing about it is that i can tell campers that if they dont behave ill jerk off in their food.
I suck at "jamming" phish-style. I never know twat the fuck I'm doing. But I've heard they are amazing.
And yeah, I think one has to sit down and be a guitar nerd at some point to learn anything on guitar, but ya gotta learn all the technical stuff to be "really good." Thank goodness I'm satisfied with being just a so-so player! ha ha!
I wanted to hang this weekend sometime but then I got sick and felt too much like poo.
Besides, don't you realize that if I don't call you to hang out, then you should call me and pester me to?
Kenny, you're an idiot...gem2darlaAugust 31 2005, 02:50:18 UTC
I love you, but still, you are an idiot. Why do smart, intelligent people continue to believe that a man and a woman who have had an intimate relationship can still be friends? Now think of it this way, could you be friends with someone whom you secretly adore? Could you watch them kiss someone else when all you want to do is kiss them? Could you sit on the sideline of happiness and watch your heart take the ball of love straight into the endzone of commitment while you know full well that it's not with you. Ummm....no. My point is just this: you cannot be a good friend to her while she is still enamored with you. It'll just break her heart when she realizes that what she really wants will never come to pass.
I'm not trying to be the Czar of Love Advice here, I'm just sharing what I know from personal experience. Her I-Don't-Care attitude is just facade she hides behind. Let her go.
Anyway, enjoy your vacation. Call me sometime. Peace.
Re: Kenny, you're an idiot...kenduaneAugust 31 2005, 21:55:42 UTC
I'm not an idiot! But of course, Kris and I messed up a lot and she can't take all the blame, so perhaps I wasn't being as wise as I thought I could be. I've done the friends thing with exes before, and it worked. Based on her last post, she's over being obsessive with me, I just wish she didn't have to "kill" her feelings to do so. We'll see. Yes, perhaps I will call you when life gets less hectic. Or sooner, because it always seems to be so.
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and i thought i was fucking busy at work! sounds like a fucking crazy job, dude. being a manager is ok, but its a lot of fucking work and stress. the only really good thing about it is that i can tell campers that if they dont behave ill jerk off in their food.
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And yeah, I think one has to sit down and be a guitar nerd at some point to learn anything on guitar, but ya gotta learn all the technical stuff to be "really good." Thank goodness I'm satisfied with being just a so-so player! ha ha!
I wanted to hang this weekend sometime but then I got sick and felt too much like poo.
Besides, don't you realize that if I don't call you to hang out, then you should call me and pester me to?
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I'm not trying to be the Czar of Love Advice here, I'm just sharing what I know from personal experience. Her I-Don't-Care attitude is just facade she hides behind. Let her go.
Anyway, enjoy your vacation. Call me sometime. Peace.
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But of course, Kris and I messed up a lot and she can't take all the blame, so perhaps I wasn't being as wise as I thought I could be.
I've done the friends thing with exes before, and it worked. Based on her last post, she's over being obsessive with me, I just wish she didn't have to "kill" her feelings to do so.
We'll see. Yes, perhaps I will call you when life gets less hectic. Or sooner, because it always seems to be so.
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