something that was really really hard for me to learn is that yeah, love never gives up, and love always wins, but even God can't save someone who doesn't want to be saved. so who am I to think that I can? you can still love the person, but sometimes that just means letting go and letting them get on with their life the way they want to live it.
Oh, i TOTALLY agree w/ u Prissi. God opens and closes doors...and that was a very difficult thing for me to learn...It's not what we want to hear y'know?...and ur right. Who am i to think I can save someone? But I'm not looking to save this time...if anything, I should be looking to save myself. But I'm not...For someone who has the ability to do it, i can't. Not yet at least...It's a lingering feeling i can't quite explain. So all i can do is pray for patience n' strength for now.
I imagine in due time, I'll let go if things stay the same. I need to live the way I need to w/ lil hindrances.
I'm not a big fan of the "love everyone unconditionally" thing. Because you CAN'T love everyone. Would you love someone who betrays you over and over? Or who always takes and never gives back? From first hand experience I can tell you that I've tried, and all it does is make you weak and easy prey for parasitic people and psychic vampires who live to benefit from people like you.
I try my best to be nice to someone until they give me a reason not to be. But if they piss me off somehow, I'm not going to allow them the chance to do it again. It's not healthy to try to force yourself to love people. Especially if they realize this and take the liberty to use it to their advantage.
There's one person in particular who I gave way too many chances to, hoping she might have changed. And she abused my trust every time. I believe in second chances. But third and fourth chances? FORGET IT. >8O
Brownie, yes...u of all ppl should know how this goes lol. But, as much as I love, I'm no fool(normally, minus this instance). Ur right, "But if they piss me off somehow, I'm not going to allow them the chance to do it again."...that's how Geo thinks too...and she'll definitely follow thru. I still think ur way nicer than she is, despite the same mentality lol
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LOL! whoa bro, i didn't even remember that hahaha!!! So that means it's not about that ;D lucky u, right? :P j/k lol! Hope ur having a blast in Australiaaaa!!! We miss u out here!
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I imagine in due time, I'll let go if things stay the same. I need to live the way I need to w/ lil hindrances.
Thx for ur words of wisdom prissi! <3 ya!
~Kimbo~
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:/ :P <3
~Kim~
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I try my best to be nice to someone until they give me a reason not to be. But if they piss me off somehow, I'm not going to allow them the chance to do it again. It's not healthy to try to force yourself to love people. Especially if they realize this and take the liberty to use it to their advantage.
There's one person in particular who I gave way too many chances to, hoping she might have changed. And she abused my trust every time. I believe in second chances. But third and fourth chances? FORGET IT. >8O
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- Marc
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