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[kiss_my_boo_boo]

Robin (my boss) is sick today, which means, once again, boredom reigns!!!

Anywho, I was listening to 102.7 on the radio this morning and instead of hearing every song Julie named in her entry (Thank God),  they had this "What girls should not say on the first date" list which, somehow, became a discussion about soul mates.  So, as I'm listening, I'

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I like your writting you should do it more!

[cameron_romance]

"-Last point, what happens when you find your soul mate and they pass away? Do you decide to date again, or does that part of your life end with your significant other's passing? And if you DO date again, who is your soul mate, person number one, or person number two

Re: I like your writting you should do it more!

[kiss_my_boo_boo]

No, it's not too nuts! I love it =) And I totally agree with the dressing up because you COULD meet that person. I think a lot of people secretly do that. Part of me likes the idea of soul mates because it makes me feel like I'm destined to be with someone, but then I don't like it because it's like, if you spend your whole life looking for a soul mate there's a possibility that you could pass someone up because at FIRST they didn't come off as your potential soul mate. Does that make sense? I really like what you had to say and thank you for going along with my silly curiousity =)

Re: I like your writting you should do it more!

[cameron_romance]

Yeah I do get passing someone up that whole ideal this is such an interesting subject, not silly at all.

[thencallmecrazy]

i think when your husband or wife passes away it's really up to the person as to whether they remarry. i think it has a lot to do with their independence level and age that their significant other passes away. some people just get very lonely and find another COMPANION to share the end of their life with while others are alright without one. you know what i mean? i've heard that a lot actually...people becoming very very lonely afterwards.

as to the rest, beats me. i just let whatever happen that's going to happen.

[kiss_my_boo_boo]

I agree with it being up to the person, especially the age thing. I also agree with the go with the flow thing. That's what I think my dad's doing right now, like, I think he sees Andrea as more of a companion and he's just going along with whatever is thrown his way, which is good because it's what makes him happy.

[juls_18]

I feel like there is more than one person that could potentially be your soulmate. It just depends on who you want to be with at the time of your choice. Like you said, different people bring out different parts of you. Amen to relationships not being perfect. It's a hard standard to uphold. To me that means that you can love more than one person in a lifetime. If your soulmate dies, you may or may not be able to find someone else. There are layers to people and different people bring out qualities you love about yourself. Personally, if my first husband/love/soulmate died, I may not be able to find another one. It depends on how you heal.

Again, I think fate brings you to the crossroads of choice. You've already heard me talk :-)

[kiss_my_boo_boo]

Fate brings you to the crossroads of choice, I like that phrasing =) I liked our talk yesterday, it was a good 'un.

[kiss_my_boo_boo]

Oh goodness, yes, afterlife is a whole new level of wonderment lol What you said makes sense =)