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[kitkatucf]

Since Adam proposed, I've been worried about deciding who was going to walk me down the isle... my mom or dad... and I knew I would pick my mom, but I dreaded the day I would have to tell my dad or when he would find out... I knew it would be hard... but now that he knows, it's worse than I thought. For those of you who don't know about the

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[ohhhsweetcheeks]

do we have the same dad? well my real dad was the same way, until my mom said no more calls blah blah blah. so my dad, my step dad is my dad now. anyways...i think your mom should walk you down the isle. there is no reason for him to, if guilt is stopping you, don't do it. you want your mom. you say your dad is just full of guilt blah blah, i understand. its like what i was talking to you about my stepsister and she didn't want dad to walk her down the isle of some stupid mistakes he made, but also they did have a realtionship, it was different, they made up. he was part of her life, but she just couldn't get over it, b/c she wasn't daddy's little girl like my oldest sister is.
the point is. you should go with your heart. your heart says your mom. so yeah thats enough of me babling

<3 Errin

[love4dance]

Hey sweetie! That is such a hard decision for you to have to make. I'm sorry!! In my opinion, I think that your Mom should be the one to walk you down the aisle. Your wedding day is one of the most important and monumental days of your life and I'm sure she would truly appreciate it. That doesn't mean you don't love your dad and don't care about him if you choose your mother. And maybe if you talk to him about it it might help a little. Someday he will understand. Don't worry, everything happends for a reason!!
Love you bunches,
Kristina

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[anonymous]

Hey hun... I kinda know the situation you are in, since you told me about it all years ago when we lived nextdoor to eachother.... and honestly, I know it is really not my place to say, but have your mom walk you down the isle. She should be the one "giving you away" since you are her's to give... he wasn't part of your life, so why should he get a say in who you marry?? Don't get me wrong, I still think the polite thing is to invite him, but really... I know how you and your mom are... and I know that if it was me (and if I had a real wedding it would have been) my mom would be the one to walk me... hope this helps a little...
Christina

Hey, it's Christine

[anonymous]

Awe...I had no idea about your family. I'm so happy you're going to be in my family. Aunt Karen, Uncle Larry, Adam and Melissa are SO great. They love you so much and you deserve it, obviously.

If I can be blunt..you should have your mom walk you down the isle. Your dad is not dependable. He's not reliable. But that doesn't mean you hate him. You should totally invite him (which you ARE doing) but your mom should be the one to give you away seeing as how she was the one who was there and honestly has the right to GIVE YOU AWAY...

:)