Oh Josie...... I'm terribly sorry your family is going through quite a trying time indeed. Sweetie, please don't carry the weight of all of this on your own. You and your mom can work through this together, keep your dad informed, and let him know you rely on his strength right now. He will need to feel helpful, as these situations tend to make you feel helpless. Please talk to them. You must feel in some strange daze right now. Please let us know if there is anything you want or need. Do what you must, but know thats what your family is for.
I wish I could give youa huge hug for that Laura. I know you're right about my having to share this with them, I know I'll have to and I'm ever so nervous about it. I don't want my Mum to put my situation above her own, she just will, I know it - she's just like that. I have a good relationship with my Dad and I know he will listen to me, I think our initial reaction to my Mum's diagnosis was me feeling irked that he crumbled. We're jsut very different I suppose but this was the initial newness of everything and I have the opportunity to make amends. My Mum made me promise when I got the results from my needle biopsies and MRI's that I would tell her. I will tell her but delay it 'til she returns, I hope this doesn't count towards a broken promise
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Well if you and your mom put eachother over the other, you'll both have no choice BUT to get well quickly! I care very much, and please know my thoughts are with you and your family (till you both get this behind you then my thoughts are back to Mr. Depp) XOXOXO
Please let us know what your moms condition is after her surgery. Please let us know what YOUR treatment will be. I feel so damn bad Josie, I wish I was there to help. Sending you and your family prayers and loads of hugs!
Thanks Laura and please don't feel bad! You've already helped me more than you'll know by making me realise that I must share this, it like a weight lifted and I don't feel alone with it at all now. I will let you know how we both get on, my Mum's op is on the Thursday of the week she gets back at the beginning of November. I've got an appointment on Friday to discuss my treatment options. Apparently there are many as this is way treatable. I'm hoping I'll be able to have a monoclonal antibody treatment but will be given more info soon. x x x x
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*hugs* to you and your family!
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you will both overcome it all.
by sheer willpower.
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