I agree with Melissa, I feel that you have made a huge impact on my life, you really are a special soul. And I am glad that you felt comfortable enough to let this out at least somewhere, that somewhere being here and trusted us to listen. Please don't ever apologize for wanting to communicate.
I think that doing 'trivial' things to be comfortable seems to be what people do all their lives! Actually the thing is it isn't trivial, you are creating and enjoying life, and whether it's big things or little things, you are doing the right thing by continuing it!
I will be bundling up my hands and my heart and oozing all the positive hopes and vibes I can and sending them your way, for the talk and for the times ahead. *hugs*
Sandy, what can I say? I have a big silly beam on my face right now. You're a treasure! Yes, I am gearing myself to spending this next life phase into be a productive one in all sorts of aspects. Aren't emotions fleeting? I was feeling so crowded in my head this afternoon and tonight I feel some sort of release. I've had a talk to my aunt, and have managed to work some things through as in the right approach to how to tell my parents (or whether to!). I think I've been panicking that I have no control which of course is nonsense;)
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Yes, and you're right - I do trust my friends here. It's such a precious priviledge for me to be able to feel comfortable enough to do this, which is of course because I value all of your friendships highly. For lots of things I am so lucky :D
Oh Josie I had to read the post 2 times before feeling brave to post my answer. I don´t know if I´m the right person to talk about that because I can understad you very well.
My family was in a similar situation twice last year and The only thing I can tell you it´s that the most important thing is the possitive energy. We tried to be strong and I think that helped a lot. All you need is love and make your mother feels very loved. If youever need to talk with anybody or only need me please pm-email me. I´m sending you all my love and a lot of husg from here I wish I were there with you to make you feel better or maybe to talk with you. Love. Gema
Gema, you're so sweet! Yes, and you're right there's a lot to be said for the power of positive thinking. I do definitely want to help my Mum through all of this. Thanks for your offer too, I always like our chats x x x{hugs}I hope everything turned out well for your family too.
Oh, Josie. You know you are so dear to many of us. There are so many people and dollies wishing for your recovery and the recovery of your Mum! I'm sorry that you are going through this trying time. Be strong and know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of many. Do whatever brings you joy and try not to sweat the little things. While it's difficult to inform your parents of your situation when they are in a non-ideal one themselves, it is the best thing to do. They will support you and love you, just like you love and support them.
Thanks Melisser x x x I feel so positive about things today (not that I've been awake tooo long!) I definitely think that you're right and at the end of the day, sharing stuff is much better than keeping it in. I'm trying to break my bad habits :D {hugs}
Hi Josie! Laura pretty much spoke for me but that's no excuse........ Hang in there and be positive! Please don't stop yourself from doing things you like while layed out,I'm sure you will do something beautiful as usual.I hope the best for your family as well! We're here if you ever need anything! You're a great girl Josie. XOXOXO I'll be here covered in plastic shavings and my finger will be glued into my nose with superglue,a really funny visual. Like some sort of ambomnibal nose pickin' plastic man!
Hehe! I read this just now as abdominal nose picking plastic man - what as feast for the imagination:D
Seriously thanks Paul x x x I'm feeling little creative urges and might treat Issy to her Elvis bag after all, plus I have to make Pablo - she has an imaginary friend who wants to be real? Crazy Blythe chick;)
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I think that doing 'trivial' things to be comfortable seems to be what people do all their lives! Actually the thing is it isn't trivial, you are creating and enjoying life, and whether it's big things or little things, you are doing the right thing by continuing it!
I will be bundling up my hands and my heart and oozing all the positive hopes and vibes I can and sending them your way, for the talk and for the times ahead. *hugs*
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Yes, and you're right - I do trust my friends here. It's such a precious priviledge for me to be able to feel comfortable enough to do this, which is of course because I value all of your friendships highly. For lots of things I am so lucky :D
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my cousin back in the philippines [34 i think] had ovarian cancer and is alright now, so hopefully that will be the situation with your mother...
and good luck, you deserve it.
you're one of the nicest people out there! ♥
i hope everything turns out okey.
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I´m sending you all my love and a lot of husg from here I wish I were there with you to make you feel better or maybe to talk with you. Love.
Gema
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I'm sorry that you are going through this trying time. Be strong and know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of many. Do whatever brings you joy and try not to sweat the little things.
While it's difficult to inform your parents of your situation when they are in a non-ideal one themselves, it is the best thing to do. They will support you and love you, just like you love and support them.
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You're a great girl Josie. XOXOXO
I'll be here covered in plastic shavings and my finger will be glued into my nose with superglue,a really funny visual.
Like some sort of ambomnibal nose pickin' plastic man!
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Seriously thanks Paul x x x I'm feeling little creative urges and might treat Issy to her Elvis bag after all, plus I have to make Pablo - she has an imaginary friend who wants to be real? Crazy Blythe chick;)
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