Ackk,omg you always have the best angsty fics everrrrrrrr <33333. ; A ; omg but I'm so glad that Yunho fucking realized that Jae is the one he loves ! I'll still kick Yunho though for being dumb 8'D!~
i'm really glad i read both of the pieces together, otherwise i might just stay heartbroken. there's something about both of their characters that i can't bring myself to like even though i can understand they way they are. for yunho, it's his inability to face his feelings for jae. for jae, it's his acceptance of being treated like a convenient whore. at the core of both of these issues, i think it's the pride and self-respect i have issues with. i'm happy that yunho's finally stopped living in denial, but i can't stay optimistic that he'll do the right thing and end things with yoona. i'm also happy that jae is taking a stand for himself, but he's ultimately giving into the previous pattern. that's not to take anything away from your writing, because it draws the emotions from the readers so well. i just really wish that their relationship wasn't so unhealthy for both of them.
I absolutely adore your comment. I always get the oh it's heartbreaking, & it is. But I try to really bring forth the fact that people are seriously fools/idiots when it comes to love & it absolutely baffles me sometimes especially when people allow themselves to succumb to such horrible relationships. I understand love is painful, but to lower your standards because you're afraid to be lonely - it really is quite sad.
Thank you for reading, & thank you for a meaningful comment ♥
i think there are a lot of people are in relationships because they fear being lonely and it's sad like you said. but i think a large part of that is this idea that society propagates that you need someone to "complete" you and you can never feel true happiness unless you find that person. therefore when you're single, you must be "missing" something and loneliness sets in. personally, i don't like this approach to romance at all and it might be because i don't feel like your happiness should be dependent on another person. that's way more responsibility than anyone should have to shoulder. a relationship should make a person happier and more satisfied. if that isn't happening, perhaps it's time to rethink the relationship. sorry, end rant here.
Exactly! & it infuriates me. It is like everywhere I turn, my friends are crying about how awful their boyfriends are to them & yet they cling onto them with no self respect. As much as I understand, or try to - I still, really - just don't understand! lol, I know that sounds weird. But to me, I think girls/or whomever need to get their shit together & stop relying or hoping that their horrible significant other will step up, because the chance is quite low. I love how we are ranting :D
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; A ; omg but I'm so glad that Yunho fucking realized that Jae is the one he loves !
I'll still kick Yunho though for being dumb 8'D!~
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Thank you for reading, & thank you for a meaningful comment ♥
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i think there are a lot of people are in relationships because they fear being lonely and it's sad like you said. but i think a large part of that is this idea that society propagates that you need someone to "complete" you and you can never feel true happiness unless you find that person. therefore when you're single, you must be "missing" something and loneliness sets in. personally, i don't like this approach to romance at all and it might be because i don't feel like your happiness should be dependent on another person. that's way more responsibility than anyone should have to shoulder. a relationship should make a person happier and more satisfied. if that isn't happening, perhaps it's time to rethink the relationship. sorry, end rant here.
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