So, I want it...but I don't want it?

[krissycat]

Yes, this is about love. I seem to be on a roll with this topic lately. ;-)

Well, I have discovered that I don't fare well in forming relationships. I don't believe that it has anything to do with a fear of commitment, but rather a fear of unwanted obligations. See, I have always been a loner by choice. While I do occasionally seek the company of

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[weredono]

Well, I thought about this and I realized the same was true for me...with friends, anyway. I spend a lot of time away from my friends because I just like being "alone"(*coughs-talking-with-Zen-cough*). But, I suppose it doesn't end up becoming a necessity like it seems to be with you.

Anyway, what I was trying to get at... I think, when you find the right person, those feelings of needing to be away from everyone will probably fade. I'm not saying you'll suddenly want to be around everyone all the time, but that for said person, you'll probably end up wanting to spend more time with them than you'd think.

Hmm...I hope that helps.

[krissycat]

Wow... That really did help! I never thought about it that way... But you know what? That sounds about right... I bet that, when I find the right person, I WILL want to be around them more than I usually want to be around ANYone. Wow... Thanks, Brit! ^_^

[weredono]

Hehe, no problem. I'm glad I could help. :3