It seems like you are already doing the most important thing which is communicating. Whether or not you end up opening the relationship keep talking to each other no matter what. It is likely to be painful at times. As for what to talk about, think about the expectations each of you has for an open relationship. If you are not going to open the relationship look for other ways to fulfill your needs, say a time in the evening when Cheri won't be bothered by monitor light. *hugs* I hope you can figure out what is best for both of you and do it.
Thanks, Since neither her or I have an answer to this I thought it would be good to reach out. Your idea of a better time of evening is a simple and good one. *hugs*
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Since neither her or I have an answer to this I thought it would be good to reach out. Your idea of a better time of evening is a simple and good one.
*hugs*
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