I say try a few more dates and maybe even mention it to her...see what she says. I don't really know, I mean, I'm not so great at this relationship thing either!
Yes i have mentioned it to her. I was basically, "what are we doing cause i want to get married and have babies and shit, and am not needing to just be fucking around. Her response was I'm not over my ex, but i have a crush on you. Hmm well great. I just don't want or need to be involved with somebody who cant focus on me. I know what its like to not be over an ex, and maybe we are in just different places, unfortunately. Its too bad cause i like her, and she's totes not my typical type. She's a lot like me and i kinda like not having super frenetic energy from my partner. Well live and learn. I think i will hang out with her tomorrow and have a chat and stop seeing her. I don't think i could date her and continue searching for a wife candidate. Thats the right thing to do.
I think your instincts are right. If you're not in the same place you are probably wasting time. But you've learned something new so it's not all bad and maybe things will be different down later when she gets over her ex. Or maybe you'll be happily married and wondering why in the world you thought kids were a good idea ;).
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Glad to see you on here though :)
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Yes i have mentioned it to her. I was basically, "what are we doing cause i want to get married and have babies and shit, and am not needing to just be fucking around. Her response was I'm not over my ex, but i have a crush on you. Hmm well great. I just don't want or need to be involved with somebody who cant focus on me. I know what its like to not be over an ex, and maybe we are in just different places, unfortunately. Its too bad cause i like her, and she's totes not my typical type. She's a lot like me and i kinda like not having super frenetic energy from my partner. Well live and learn. I think i will hang out with her tomorrow and have a chat and stop seeing her. I don't think i could date her and continue searching for a wife candidate. Thats the right thing to do.
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Yeah who the heck knows? Lifes a fucking journey people, a journey!!
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Yeah who the heck knows? Lifes a fucking journey people, a journey!!
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