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mymimikyu January 7 2022, 03:08:22 UTC
There are so many Japanese traditions I would love to do with my baby, and I just wrote a short paper about the ritual of Okuizome お食い初め , which I can actually do at home. Be safe, but I hope you get to enjoy everything in January!

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kurikuribebi January 7 2022, 04:04:34 UTC
We haven't really thought about what traditions we will and won't follow but we know we want a fair balance of Latin-American and Japanese tradition being implemented. It also depends on how much Ryu's parent's push us to do certain things, lol.

Thank you!

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miss_ljv January 7 2022, 15:34:18 UTC

Omg the pics make it so REAL!!! I canNOT believe you are almost due already (my perception lol, not sure if it has gone fast or slow to you).

I read all your replies about the neighbor, I would have thrown down too!!!! 😡

Your Christmas sounded lovely!

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kurikuribebi January 9 2022, 22:47:45 UTC
It's gone by both fast and slow. I'm in that grey area where I'm pregnant, very much so, but haven't gone through any major chances, so it doesn't feel like I'm pregnant. Makes it hard to be as careful as I should, lol.

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blastofserenity January 12 2022, 00:53:55 UTC
Pizza for Christmas dinner sound perfect!

That was extremely polite of you guys to inform your neighbors. Is that a common thing people in Japan do? Also, It's a baby, they will cry, they will cry when they want to cry, it doesn't stop because people have to work for home. Your neighbor has so unrealistic expectations. >.> Hopefully you want have any issues with them when ya settle back in there.

Look at that little babyyyyy face! <3

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kurikuribebi January 12 2022, 06:48:42 UTC
Definitely cheaper than the traditional KFC Bucket of chicken, that's for sure! Although, I do love some good fried chicken.

Hm. I'm not sure if it's common? It was simply something I thought would be polite to do. After all, their peace is being inconvenienced because of us. I know that back in the day, it used to be common to greet neighbors when you just moved in, as a courtesy, but that's a dying habit. Related to birth though.... no idea.

There aren't any other families with newborns here in my building. Most tend to move out relatively quickly.

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blastofserenity January 15 2022, 19:33:28 UTC
ha ha, yes! I remember those long lines! I never did participate in the tradition though. I think I went to KFC maybe one time in the 5 years I was there.

Yeah, I knew about the formal introduction and bringing gifts when ya moved in. Just curious about the baby aspect of it. Very polite and considerate of you to do. :)

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kurikuribebi January 15 2022, 23:12:13 UTC
Before, I never had a KFC near me, so I was never really tempted to go since I didn't have it in sight. When I moved and found one near me, I learned that the butter-milk biscuits had been discontinued, which killed my remaining interest for a while.

Now, we have a car so we can go easily, but Ryu doesn't like fried chicken. I go on my own occasionally after doctor appointments, but only ever get the twisty wraps. Since it's just me, I can't justify a bucket, lol.

I tried checking google about it, and there doesn't seem to be a set etiquette when it comes to babies. Probably because most new moms go back to their parent's homes and don't have to deal with apartment neighbors for a while.

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