I like these...shut up!

Nov 09, 2005 18:40

[] I am bisexual or homosexual ( Read more... )

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withoutcanseco November 10 2005, 18:12:09 UTC
how exactly does one get treated "like the friend that's a girl". just wondering cause i got some friends that are girls.

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la_vie_a_vecu November 11 2005, 02:51:08 UTC
Well, you talk to her like a dude. Like, you talk about masturbating, and how "this chick had a sweet rack", and shizz like that. Respect her, and know that she is a girl. I'm not saying that you don't respect your friends, but you catch my drift.

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withoutcanseco November 11 2005, 06:03:00 UTC
ah, okay. but i have to say, my experience with "friends that are girls" has been that they want to be treated like "just one of the guys" so to speak. and whenever someone treats them differently, OR (and this is the kicker) someone treats them exactly like a male friend (with the rack talk, etc, etc) it really gets all weird (read: dramatic) with everyone involved. so it really comes down to: do you really want to be treated as just one of the friends in the group, or something else? if one wants to just be a friend, then one should be able to take everything that said friend has to give. it's a problem that a lot of girls i know continually have confusion with. not saying one way is right or the other, but it's just been my experience that girls have a way harder time being "just friends" than guys do.

anyways, maybe it's just a difference of who've we've had experiences with :o)

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la_vie_a_vecu November 11 2005, 22:18:01 UTC
I do think that it's okay to be in a platonic relationship with a member of the opposite sex, but it's been my experience that the relationship has always ended in crap up to my knees. It does matter who the people are, and stuff like that.

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