I remember feeling so inspired when I began studying somatic sex education. Plus, I needed to focus on developing my career. Since my marriage was essentially over as soon as it began, this gave me the oomph I needed to focus. (What I am not saying, however, is that is also shut me down in ways I'll go into at a later date)

I feel a renewed sense ( Read more... )

In all my years on the planet, I haven't run into this in any major way before. I've had training in somatic sex education and Taoist practices, so I really come from a place of openness about all things sensual. I am seeing someone who won't go down on me. Yet together we have this electric, ecstatic, sexual chemistry that lasts for hours when we ( Read more... )

Welp, here I sit almost a year later from my last post and so much has shifted. I am about to graduate college, and open my private practice in counselling. I am also simultaneously single and living on my own, mulling through what this gets to mean for me. Two years ago I asked myself how I wanted to feel when I turned forty. It was a resounding ( Read more... )

Boy, some of what I read back from years ago (that I am aware I typed myself) are things I definitely needed to reflect on at the time rather than project outward.

I suppose this is hindsight being 20/20.

Oh look, and now I've literally become a therapist. Go figure.

Aiming for transparency these days rather than performance.

Also currently aiming in ( Read more... )

Sixteen years ago it was 2007. Which was the year of my last post, and right when Facebook shot into being. Thus destroying my journal-loving ways. Trust me. I'm still wordy. This has never changed. Gosh I wish I'd been more secure in myself back then. You'd think from reading all of these posts back that I was! But I can see through what I wrote ( Read more... )

Chuck Norris's girlfriend once asked him how much wood a woodchuck could chuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood. He then shouted, "HOW DARE YOU RHYME IN THE PRESENCE OF CHUCK NORRIS!" and ripped her throat out. Holding his girlfriend's bloody throat in his hand he bellowed, "Don't fuck with Chuck!" Two years and five months later he realized the ( Read more... )

Alice In Wonderland ( Read more... )