Been awhile

[laron]

So I know it's been quite some time since I've updated. I'm sure this is because I have been listless and irritated, or maybe just apprehensive about going back to work. I spend alot of time busy, and trying not to think too much. I like this place I'm at now.. this quietly content spot that I don't have too much to worry about. It gives me

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[gothicsins]

The Man never talked to the kids while they were in utero. Some guys do it, and others don't. When it got close to the due date, he'd talk, but say something like, "Coooome oooout already...."

My mom talked to my belly ALL the time, and it did get a little annoying after awhile. And a little embarrassing when she did it in public.~L~

Suggest he look up information himself on all this, especially what's happening with you. Has he gone to any of the doctor appointments? Would he listen if the the doc talked him through it?

I probably shouldn't compare you and me, but I'm jsut throwing out suggestions.

Anyway, hope all things look up soon. ~HUGS~

[obsidiantears]

A lot of men aren't good connecting with the entire idea of childbirth and babies before it happens. It's like it isn't real to them until they can actually see and hear the child. It's going to be frustrating, and quite frankly, the entire birth process IS horrifying...but it's not the worst or best thing that can or will happen to you both.

You are both going to be frustrated throughout this entire process and this is only the beginning. He's frustrated and angry because of the changes you're going through and so are you. The way *I* kind of look at it, and maybe not everyone else does so please take this with a grain of salt....men are used to having the majority of the attention of the women they are with. A child...even in the fetal stage, starts to divert some of that attention from them and even if they realize that on a conscious level, it's not always something they realize anywhere else. So the men will act out.

Work through it, live through, and you will make it.

[angelpsalm]

I'm gonna deffer to your other commenters for this one as a whole. You are the pregnant one in the whole scenario and he is going to have to- adapt to hormonal shifting and physical limitations you have now. Neither are an easy task by any-means. It'll be alright, awkward and irritating but it'll level out eventually.