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[leaelyse]

How many people out there were cheated on and still took the person back?

Better yet, how many people out there had their lovers cheat on them with an ex and you STILL took them back?

Just curious...

Comments

[shannanana]

i've personally never had this happen...
but i know two people who have. one of them, her girlfriend cheated on her twice and she still took her back. they just broke up again though. sad world.

[mapekco]

i've had the cheating bit happen, both w/ an ex and a stranger. even as i was willing to forgive them, the "getting back" part nvr occurred, which means that in my ex's eyes, the cheating wasn't really cheating...just the "sanest way" (in their minds) to get out of something that wasn't working for them...they were nvr wrong. it happened w/ my last gf who not only cheated, but was and still is abusive towards me. i would take her back in a heartbeat as i love the woman and i know she can change her attitude. my only hope is that she does.

Smile :):)

[luckyadventurer]

Well, if it happened, I wasn't aware if it :). Who knows these days! More that I value actions, I value intentions. Questions I ask myself: Why did she do this? What was she thinking about when she did it? How do the answers to the first two questions reflect upon her intentions in our involvement? How do the answers to the first two questions reflect upon her capacity to love, her capacity to love, her perspective on the meaning of the concept? Keeping in mind a general understanding of her character, what has she taken away from the experience (logically and emotionally)? Do I know her well enough to answer these questions? Do I know her well enough to know if she would do it again?

[jeezette]

I took mine back. and in the past the girl i was with took me back..but she only thinks i cheated once...(ive changed) and the girl in the past did not deserve my solitary love and affection.

[shadow_dancer1]

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