You're just a kid. It's not your job to feel bad about what adults decide to do. Ok? So stop it, because it's not your fault or your job to feel bad or have to make these adult arrangements.
And I'm sure he loves you, even though the shallow things in life might make it seem like he doesn't, and even if he's not the father you want him to be, you have a mother that loves you to death, so you should know that you really are worth something, and that you're not a mistake to her.
One day he's going to wake up and realize what he's been missing over the past years. He'll regret that he didn't get to know you better because you're truly a talented, lovely and wonderful person. I've been brought up in a so called "nuclear family", and thus I don't know what it feels like only seeing my father once a year. But. IMO, if he's disappointed in you, that's his problem, not yours. (On the other hand, I wouldn't blame you if you were disappointed in him.) Your mother is veryvery proud of you, and in a way, that's what really matters, because she's the one who really knows you. Don't get me wrong, I think your father loves you and cares about you, but I don't think he knows what being a father is really about. My point is; It's not your fault, and it's not your job to please him. Don't feel bad.
And I've finished your present too! Could we meet downtown Oslo one of these days to exchange gifts?
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And I'm sure he loves you, even though the shallow things in life might make it seem like he doesn't, and even if he's not the father you want him to be, you have a mother that loves you to death, so you should know that you really are worth something, and that you're not a mistake to her.
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And the two first comments.
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And I've finished your present too! Could we meet downtown Oslo one of these days to exchange gifts?
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