Comments | lemonediscream: Should I Shouldn't I

lemonediscream

Should I Shouldn't I

Feb 21, 2007 10:35

Peter and I will be attending Fetish Evolution in Essen Germany this year (anybody else that wants to attend we'll go splitsy on a room with ya... er, but we have to kind of know you...) and I'm now in a mad dash to try and find a way to help pay off this trip as well as purchase a few fabulous outfits for the event. All of which leads me to...

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theincubus February 21 2007, 18:10:46 UTC

You should ask someone who has done it before. Like any business, there are things to be learned and it would be good if you didn't have to do that the hard way. You might also wish to consider for the Cons list : - personal safety and - effect on family if your folks discover your "sin" job.

Could be nice loot though, and those stories are something to look forward to.

lemonediscream February 21 2007, 19:03:31 UTC

"Nitt, how did you get so much money all of a sudden, did you get a raise?"
"..."
"Nitt?"
"... Look at what Ate's doing!"

Ate's always doing SOMEthing. Perfect smoke screen. just kidding.

It'd be like the time my parents found half-naked pictures of me on my computer and decided to bring it up in the middle of Ikea. I JUST WANT TO BUY A DESK!

clearmind February 21 2007, 22:01:22 UTC

Boy do I wish I was there to see that conversation!

lemonediscream February 22 2007, 06:16:32 UTC

I think I literally said "Look, I just want to buy a desk..." and thought to myself "man, this... this is a memory... I'm keeping it *lock* god, I love my family"

The second best part was my dad's issue wasn't actually "Doing that is wrong" (which was my mother's side) it was "How could you be so stupid as to not delete that... your brothers could've found that... that's just dumb." though, not in those words.

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devilicia February 21 2007, 18:32:06 UTC

J&J have a friend in the business so maybe see if you can pick her brain ( ... )

lemonediscream February 21 2007, 18:59:03 UTC

well, to be honest I wouldn't do it full-time... just as a second job of sorts, something to do on my rare day-offs and nights, just temporarily (as in pay off my credit card and such). Honestly I'm just looking at this as a means to con a few suckers out of their cash... which is no way to go about anything. So I probably will not do it. I know quite a few doms and they seem to be fine with it too, most have a sort of indifferent attitude towards it...

theincubus February 22 2007, 05:01:28 UTC

I'll happily whip up a cover story for the Nitty Dom. How does "Armor Designer" strike you? Heh.

bunnie_page February 21 2007, 20:24:09 UTC

Hahaha...I love the idea of you, as a dominatrix, giggling gleefully :P

That's all I have to add.

darkheartedfool February 21 2007, 20:37:20 UTC

Your alive ?!?

Wow.

darkheartedfool February 21 2007, 20:40:08 UTC

Okay.... Hmm..

Here is how I weigh into this.

1) The person who commented about future employment makes a strong point. The problem with such things is you never know who your dealing with or how it will come back to bite you in the ass.
Like going for a job interview and finding one of your 'regulars' is on the interview committee or the office weasel.

2) You'd die if your dad ever found out. I remember how upset you were over the 'Night Flower' comment.

3). Guru.com - I'm sure people need you more than you know. (Since you have mad skills)

4). What ever happened to you sitting on Ballons for cash?

I think those are my major points.. I'll go back to lurking until you need someone to hype your shows.

*hug*

One Darkhearted Fool - Former Hype Man of Numi.

lemonediscream February 22 2007, 06:07:59 UTC

1) Heh, then my life would be a sitcom... and the circle is complete.

2) I don't actually remember being upset... actually I find it pretty funny. My dad taught me several things including stand tall and strong and take everything with a grain of salt. I think he did a damn fine job of raising his kids and I think he knows it. He trusts us... which, in some cases is a mistake... but he knows in the long run we're smart kids. He's a proud man but not in the sense you think... it isn't about following the rules or absolute obedience... it's about keeping your own head high.

3) Hmmm... I'll check it out... craigslist is great but... not so great.

4) I never had time to contact the guy... my senior year started up and I barely had time to breathe let alone do any modelling or other work. Then it just lost its appeal....