Sweetie... NOW you know part of why I'm so "Picky" - I don't want any man thinking they can have me as a "Booty call". I am not just a twat.
And as for someone telling you "It's because you don't let "god" pick your man for you"... WTFucking FUCK? Next they'll tell you that you ought to be wearing a Burkah and not working outside of the house... Who the hell thinks these things? Not this Pagan Woman.
Ok so I know I know, But in my defence.... I have loved him for 21 years and all that. And in the begaining I was cool with the whole booty call thing, but it is getting old!
And as far as the whole God thing the first of those people would be my mother... and as much as I love her that doesnt help me one damn bit!!! If I had the paitents to wait for god I might be a christian But well I cant be that paitent!!!
Yeah I can understand the "Love makes you blind" thing, really I do... Only I tend to fall for guys I'll never meet, or never catch because they are A) Already happily caught ... B) Queer as $3 bills... C) live in other states/countries/continents... or D) do not currently exist in this realm of reality...(A Certain Time Lord, anyone?)
(Snerk!) So the next time your Mother tells you that, you can tell her "Right- like you folks have been waiting for 2000+ years for your Perfect Fella? How's that working out for you?"
Let God pick your mate?! Ok, so how about a little test of that? Ask God/Goddess/Chthulu/Reverend Bob/Whatever Deity to help you choose a perfect mate, right now. Close your eyes, let your fingers blindly pick a name from the phone book, opened at a random spot, and then call them, if the name is not female or a "Mr & Mrs" listing. I'd like to see the results of that. ;P
Ya I could see that call. Hello Mr Smith I am calling you cause god says you should be my mate in life.. What you are gay, well I am sorry about that. but god says you are mr right and there for you are...right?!?!?! LOL Some People!!!!! Hear the Snap there goes the last thread I had on my sanity.. Bummer I am really gonna miss it....NOT!!!!!!! TEE HEE HEE I did say if any one said it I would snap.....
Leofemale; As a now sexually burned out male of nearly 56 years I can truthfully say I regret my days as a womanizer. Don't get me wrong...it was fun and physically satisfying, but too many people around me got seriously hurt. Like your friend of 21 years, fear motivated me. Fear of losing my fragile identity by what I thought would be the wrong commitment. That's what happened to me in my first marriage. Most people seem to me to be like that. At 34, you've got time to have fun AND get the right guy. I don't know what you look like ( I think ) but you impress me as the kind of lady who will get her man someday. As for your friend, have fun with him and, if he won't commit, he can always be shown the door. Does this make any sense? WUFFFF!!! Sordak
Yes it does and thanks for being honest. I have decided to play with him as the toy he is and not worry about it now.... If I decide I need something serious I will kick him to the curb!
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And as for someone telling you "It's because you don't let "god" pick your man for you"... WTFucking FUCK? Next they'll tell you that you ought to be wearing a Burkah and not working outside of the house...
Who the hell thinks these things?
Not this Pagan Woman.
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Ok so I know I know, But in my defence.... I have loved him for 21 years and all that. And in the begaining I was cool with the whole booty call thing, but it is getting old!
And as far as the whole God thing the first of those people would be my mother... and as much as I love her that doesnt help me one damn bit!!! If I had the paitents to wait for god I might be a christian But well I cant be that paitent!!!
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Only I tend to fall for guys I'll never meet, or never catch because they are A) Already happily caught ... B) Queer as $3 bills... C) live in other states/countries/continents... or D) do not currently exist in this realm of reality...(A Certain Time Lord, anyone?)
(Snerk!) So the next time your Mother tells you that, you can tell her "Right- like you folks have been waiting for 2000+ years for your Perfect Fella? How's that working out for you?"
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Beyond that, I think hugs are in order. *hugs*
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As a now sexually burned out male of nearly 56 years I can truthfully say I regret my days as a womanizer. Don't get me wrong...it was fun and physically satisfying, but too many people around me got seriously hurt. Like your friend of 21 years, fear motivated me. Fear of losing my fragile identity by what I thought would be the wrong commitment. That's what happened to me in my first marriage. Most people seem to me to be like that. At 34, you've got time to have fun AND get the right guy. I don't know what you look like ( I think ) but you impress me as the kind of lady who will get her man someday. As for your friend, have fun with him and, if he won't commit, he can always be shown the door. Does this make any sense? WUFFFF!!! Sordak
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