Around Thanksgiving last year, a woman I had been crushing on revealed she was interested in me, and we were together up until a few weeks ago
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You're going to be as angry as you're going to be. No shame in that. Blindsided...
but, that said... People coming out for the first time and exploring what is very new (to your ex) often ping-pong around until they figure out what is what. If you get a chance to watch from the sidelines, you might see this "new" relationship also go very bad, very quickly. Or... maybe it's meant to be. In either case, this is a time for YOU to heal and to watch what goes down. You say you and your ex were really good together, maybe that light will be enough for her to see what she's missing. In the meantime, process that anger. It comes from a real place. And I'm super sorry that happened to you.
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but, that said... People coming out for the first time and exploring what is very new (to your ex) often ping-pong around until they figure out what is what. If you get a chance to watch from the sidelines, you might see this "new" relationship also go very bad, very quickly. Or... maybe it's meant to be. In either case, this is a time for YOU to heal and to watch what goes down. You say you and your ex were really good together, maybe that light will be enough for her to see what she's missing. In the meantime, process that anger. It comes from a real place. And I'm super sorry that happened to you.
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