Not sure whether to be flattered or creeped out....well, mostly annoyed, actually

[lethrdadchicago]

So I had my first "stalker" at the gym yesterday.

I have been reflecting over the last couple of days, rolling over and over in my brain a phrase that our friend Delmarmar used in his comment last week related to my son's bar mitzvah, "everybody's hot to somebody."  I got a good chuckle out of it. Well, it got turned on its ear this week!

When I've

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[delmarmar]

Hmm, maybe if you want to stop this next time here's a non-confrontational way. As soon as he looks at you, say "hey, how's it goin'?" Speak clearly and casually and as if you are completely oblivious to his being hot for you. Talking seems to be a total "cruise" killer. Nothing like "dude, my eyes are up here", just inane boring inane conversational small talk. It would probably be a total buzz kill for him and it would let others know you are there to work out, not work it.

Wanna really tweak him? Give him two snaps and a "hey gurlfriend". Dude'll avoid you like the plague.