so i'm obviously not a very private person.....

[letwordscolide]

Ok i need a general consensus about my relationship.

Background: my boyfriend Ryan had gone out with this girl for over a year, the only real girl he's ever loved/lived with/was going to marry. SHE broke up with HIM about 4 months ago, because he kissed another girl (which might constitute as cheating to some of you, it does to me) only for him to

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[aaronisreal]

OK, this guy is pretty messed up and/or shady. According to him, this is the only girl he's ever loved and he wanted to marry her, until she got mad when he kissed some other girl, so therefore she's a "psycho bitch" - but, he still likes to talk to her on the phone twice a week, and it sounds like they were going to get together (or she wanted to

[xconveyedheartx]

well... i am friends with all of my ex-girlfriends except for one, and i have hung out with all of them and gone places and done things together on more than one occasion without it leading to sex or causing any problems... but that's just me, and we all know that i'm cool like that... hehe!

but as for the cheating thing... i say that a cheater is always a cheater, cause if he was stupid enough to do it once, he's most likely stupid enough to do it again.

good luck and be careful... there are some shady ass guys out there!

i agree

[letwordscolide]

i am friends with alot of my ex's as well, which is why i am giving him the benifit of the doubt here. However, I've never been on the same intimate level with someone as they once were, and the fact that she broke up with him, and he still chooses to talk to her often makes me wonder.

I just don't know how to approach him about it without sounding hypocritical and not trusting of him. :/

[ohshesbad]

Kay. I am the connoisseur of all things involving piece of shit guys.

Break up with him.

The end!

[letwordscolide]

lol out of everyone here i probably believe you the most just because of the fact you've gone through pretty much that most shitty situations with guys i've ever heard of.

[ohshesbad]

exactly. head my godly advice and leave that goober.

[xanchoredheartx]

yah, you dont need that drama in your life.. if he's pulling this crap and you have a problem with it (which it's ok for you to have a problem with) he should just give it up because it obviously bothers you.. and that's what guys you should be with SHOULD do.. if the girl that they're with has a legitimate problem with somehting they're doing, they fix it or work on it or whatever..

even if they hang out, which isnt a big deal, it doesnt mean that it's going to lead to them kissing or getting freaky again.. if anything, he's not over her, no matter what he says.. he's just fooling himself, and you in the process..

[letwordscolide]

"....and that's what guys you should be with SHOULD do"

You know me blake though, i don't like confronting people about things. I haven't asked him to give it up, although i have told him it bothers me, yet he still talks to her. so i've just been withdrawling myself from him little by little.

"if anything, he's not over her, no matter what he says.. he's just fooling himself, and you in the process.."

I think thats the most likely case here.

[chasejohnson]

he thought he loved this girl enough to propose to her, but then she broke up with him and all of a sudden he says shes an unstable bitch? and hes her only friend? she broke up with him...
that sounds like a lot of drama.
i say ditch the guy and the appleseed cast...

[letwordscolide]

i'll ditch you if you're not careful!!!! ;)

jk <3 u!