As far as I can tell, virtually everyone is "losing" contact with friends.
So many people don't ask me to go out, or catch up or do anything these days.
I put it down to everyone being on different paths, different directions in life.
Before we use to all have things in common, same interests and etc. Now our lives have changed, we do different things, have different jobs and alot of other things.
Whenever I see someone I use to hang out with a fair bit, I can barely hold a conversation with them anymore. What I talk about these days, are not the things they talk about.
But yeah, I don't think you should take it personally as such, it's just different times these days. I believe everyone is going through the same thing :)
it's also because of being in relationhips, i think. my family makes me feel like i should have friends that i've known since i was really little, and i've got no one like that anymore. so now the friends i have and i are growing apart, it's difficult for me to accept.
I know I'm not your favourite person... But whatever. I read this and I can relate 100% As much as none of us want to admit it, we're all moving further and further away from our 'friends'... Our friendships started and were based around a scene of people that were so diverse and fun. When we were all interested in the same things we could hold conversations and carry on like we always had. But now, everyone is turning into the people we were destined to be. Single, with a partner, working in retail, studying or having a career... This is life. It hurts to feel like you are being excluded from your old friends, but when you see that you're life is great and you're happy regardless you will feel a lot more calm about it. Take a deep breath...Chin up... Look at everything from your happiness on the outside. Your friends that are going to be there for life are the ones that will be the ones who are not too worried about having 3 weeks between vitis.
maybe it's coz i havn't been working, so i've been feeling more alone, and more like i need to see my friends. i am calm about it, there are just some people who i miss hanging out with, people who i can still hold a conversation with and enjoy it, the conversation is just rare. you're right tho, i am happy, happier than i've ever been. i have the best boyfriend in the world, and i am about to start the career of my life. thanx for the advice kasey.
i've been pretty emo/stressed with uni work lately.... its that time of year where i have 192837198731928732917329 assessments done and no time to do anything else =( i still love you all the same though darling *hug* and after the 15th of november when exams finish, we shall par-tay! <3
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So many people don't ask me to go out, or catch up or do anything these days.
I put it down to everyone being on different paths, different directions in life.
Before we use to all have things in common, same interests and etc. Now our lives have changed, we do different things, have different jobs and alot of other things.
Whenever I see someone I use to hang out with a fair bit, I can barely hold a conversation with them anymore. What I talk about these days, are not the things they talk about.
But yeah, I don't think you should take it personally as such, it's just different times these days. I believe everyone is going through the same thing :)
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my family makes me feel like i should have friends that i've known since i was really little, and i've got no one like that anymore. so now the friends i have and i are growing apart, it's difficult for me to accept.
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As much as none of us want to admit it, we're all moving further and further away from our 'friends'... Our friendships started and were based around a scene of people that were so diverse and fun. When we were all interested in the same things we could hold conversations and carry on like we always had. But now, everyone is turning into the people we were destined to be. Single, with a partner, working in retail, studying or having a career... This is life. It hurts to feel like you are being excluded from your old friends, but when you see that you're life is great and you're happy regardless you will feel a lot more calm about it.
Take a deep breath...Chin up... Look at everything from your happiness on the outside.
Your friends that are going to be there for life are the ones that will be the ones who are not too worried about having 3 weeks between vitis.
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i am calm about it, there are just some people who i miss hanging out with, people who i can still hold a conversation with and enjoy it, the conversation is just rare.
you're right tho, i am happy, happier than i've ever been. i have the best boyfriend in the world, and i am about to start the career of my life.
thanx for the advice kasey.
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