It's raining!! AND ALL LEAVE COMMENTS!

[lilkubuddha]

Seriously, i would like some other opinions, so even if it is anonomous leave a comment! Ok most, if not all, of you know about me and Zach. Well it has been brought to my attention that the reasons i give you and Zach are untrue. That i was just looking for a way out and not to be a bitch. Do you think it is true? I personally know i was a

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[boys_are_toys]

Ok. No, I don't think you made a mistake by breaking up with Zach. I think you two are two very different people right now. I think the plans you were making for your future together were entirely too accelerated. I think that if he would've moved there, things would've ended up going sour anyway, only then he'd be stuck there knowing no one and you'd both be miserable. I agree with you that the two of you should stop acting like you're together. I think this will only give the two of you false hopes of getting back together and make things entirely more difficult. I know that the two of you still love each other, but honestly, how many people ACTUALLY get back together after they've broken up. I know that I sound like a cold hearted bitch by saying all of this, and I'm sure he won't be too happy knowing that I feel this way, but you said you wanted opinions. I really think that what you did was for the best. You are a very smart girl and you know when things just aren't going right. Us girls have a sixth sense about these things,

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[yourmyreason311]

Well I agree with everything you said as far as we are concerned and glad we had our long, heated convo today. I'll try to act as just a friend but you know its hard on me. As far as what dana said and having false hope...I will always have hope for us again. Whether it be false or not is to be seen in the future but I will always hope. You know that I love you and I'm always here for you in whatever way you need me to be. Peace out baby...

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[itsbigdoglove]

Okay, I love both of you with all my heart and so its hard to be the neutral person here...but I have been on both sides of this situation, and both sides suck. I completely understand the whole talking on the phone thing...for a month after me and mr. t broke up, he still called every day, to check on me and tell me puppy love...and at first, it was comforting, knowing that he still loved me, and that we were still talking, that gave me hope, I soon realized, it was false hope, and finally one day he called, and I told him, that despite how much I wanted to talk to him, things weren't the same, and if he didn't have anything to talk to me about, then don't call. Because things just got harder, it got to that point where our hour phone calls got to 2 minute phone calls, and it hurt too much to have to deal with it. He stopped calling, although its not any easier than it was before, I know that I am so glad I did that for myself, because that way, I wasn't in a way, leading myself on, to believe that one day our relationship would

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[ashpsu02]

ok... first of all, i don't remember what happened on Valentine's day that you said in your journal you finally told Z about??? ok now onto my opinions... 1) you guys shouldn't be saying "i love you" on the phone right now, it's one thing to say that platonically, but not to an ex boyfriend that you just broke up w/... it sends mixed signals and just makes everything confusing in my opinion... 2) who cares if he hooked up w/ her? i know it hurts, but if you sit and get mad at him about it that is just gonna confuse everything even more... cause you say you don't wanna be w/ him yet you get mad when he's w/ someone else... if you want him to move on, you have to let him move on!... i know what you're going through is hard, but i just want you to know how proud i am of you... i've had front row seats to every significant relationship you've been in and i've never seen you stand up for yourself the way you are... and if standing up for yourself means being a bitch every once in awhile then owell, you're doing what you need to do and i