Comments | lilycobalt: Week 2: Throw Back the Little Ones

lilycobalt

Week 2: Throw Back the Little Ones

Jan 28, 2013 23:41

( Cut for sexual content and borderline stalking. )

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kandigurl January 29 2013, 06:31:05 UTC

Auuuuuuuugh, I have been here. You're dealing with a crazymaker. You probably get that feeling because you're right, but they're not. You're not being mean, you're being honest, and they're not hearing you.

I have crazymakers I finally let go of over four years ago that are STILL trying to contact me, despite me never responding to anything they send. Luckily I've gotten a new phone since I knew them, so at least they can't call...but I get e-mails, Facebook posts, twitter requests...even though our last interaction was a huge fight.

Anyway. I hope this calms down for you. And this entry was beautifully written!

lilycobalt January 30 2013, 03:33:51 UTC

Yep. That's what he is. Everything would seem all normal when I was around him to the point when I wondered if I was the crazy one, but then I'd tell someone else what was going on and realize, "wait...that's really weird."

Thanks a lot! I'm pretty sure I'll be safe for at least a year :P

kandigurl January 30 2013, 04:11:31 UTC

That is EXACTLY what happened with my old friends. I lived with them for a while and was so sucked into their world that it seemed totally normal, then exactly like you said, it sounded completely crazy explaining it to others.

silyara January 29 2013, 06:39:39 UTC

Uuuuh well written here, but damn, have you considered changing your number? 'cause idk about you, I don't want to get any more calls from someone like that (6 years stalker-free in a few weeks!). And yeah, you're not being mean. Just gotta be strict and straight up and wabamn. And hopefully this is all he does.

lilycobalt January 30 2013, 03:36:41 UTC

I hadn't thought about it, but I'd be interested in just blocking his number. I don't need him in my life, and I'm not going to equivocate about that. I'm not expecting anything else out of him, just based on history, but...ugh, no, he's not entitled to my attention.

n3m3sis43 January 29 2013, 12:52:27 UTC

Been there. It sucks. I'm proud of you for standing your ground.

lilycobalt January 30 2013, 03:37:37 UTC

Thank you. It's not a good place to be and even after sending him off, I still feel all icky over it.

audreybuttercup January 29 2013, 16:07:49 UTC

Oh Lord I've been here! I hate that mess!

lilycobalt January 30 2013, 03:41:27 UTC

It's awful and I don't want anything to do with it! I'm sorry you've been there!

whipchick January 29 2013, 17:32:27 UTC

Ugh, such a trap, the whole "I don't want to be with you but I feel mean if I don't respond," cycle!

lilycobalt January 30 2013, 03:50:02 UTC

It is! I've decided to get over it by embracing the feeling of being mean. :)