getting reeeeeeally frustrated.

[linneaah]

So this boy and I have been talking. We've both been kinda into each other and flirty with each other for awhile, but we came to the conclusion the other day that nothing could come of it for various reasons. Now things are incredibly awkward between us, and I find it hard to be around him without feeling like shit. Not because I feel like I've

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[elfpainter]

Guys suck. Ok, now that I've gotten that out of the way, I think it's wrong that you seem to be the one who has to maintain the relationship, even at the status quo. It sounds like he's making no effort whatsoever to reach out to you. Whether this is from his own guilt over how things went, or his own insecurities over his ability to maintain the boundaries you have agreed on, it just seems like he is laying all the responsibility at your doorstep. I think, perhaps, you should stop accomodating him in that regard. Still, I don't believe you should necessarily ignore him, since you will have to interact with on a fairly constant basis in classes. Maybe the best thing would be to take a step back and let things flow without trying to regulate them, and see what he does. Or maybe you shouldn't listen to me at all. I just want you to know somebody reads this and cares. *hugs*

PS When are you flying into Raleigh?

homeward bound

[linneaah]

thanks for the insight :-) I'm flying in on the 19th, and back out on the 9th. will you be around for christmas?

Re: homeward bound

[elfpainter]

From what I understand, Rob and I are planning on spending a few days in Greensboro at the beginning of break, roughly the 17th-23rd, and then we should be in Raleigh for the remainder of the season.