Name: Tasha
Previously stamped as: Jo March (regular), D'Artagnan (Classic male characters)
♥ You
What are some of your positive traits? Determined, funny, self-confident, good debater, resourceful, compassionate, good listener, quick thinker, hard-worker, private, polite, creative, good under pressure, doesn't hold a grudge, kind, generous.
What are some of your more negative traits? Manipulative, easily angered (although I don't often show it), materialistic, selfish, doesn't trust easily, swears too much, impatient, can't stand mistakes.
Likes: Sunny weather, debating, cooking and eating good food, sleeping, reading, writing, playing video games, studying history and political science, dancing like an idiot, singing.
Dislikes: Abuse of any kind, rain, snow, cold, having asthma attacks, prejudice, sexism/racism/homophobia etc.
♥ Him
What are some traits that are ideal for your perfect match? Physically strong, somewhat intimidating, ambitious, capable of being serious but also with a funny side, protective, charming, interested in learning new things, romantic.
What are some traits that are instant rejection in a guy? Unwarranted arrogance. I can definitely handle someone who is cocky for a good reason. Abuse of any kind would be instant rejection. Someone who is a cheater would also be.
Not everyone is perfect, so what are some flaws that you could tolerate? Someone who is a little possessive. Someone who worries too much. Someone who has a hard time talking about their feelings.
What physical attributes do you like? Obvious physical strength, muscles, strong features, facial hair can be cool but isn't required, nice eyes (color doesn't really matter), really nice hands, and taller than me (I'm 5'8").
♥ This/That: You
Shy or outgoing: Outgoing.
Modern or old fashioned: Modern.
Loving or lustful: Loving.
Emotional or physical: Emotional.
Sensitive or thick-skinned: Thick-skinned.
Pessimistic or optimistic: Optimistic.
Idealistic or realistic: Realistic.
Romantic or unromantic: Romantic.
♥ This/That: Him
Shy or outgoing: Maybe a little shyer, but not completely reserved.
Modern or old fashioned: Either is fine. More towards the modern side.
Loving or lustful: Loving.
Emotional or physical: Physical, to balance me out.
Sensitive or thick-skinned: Thick-skinned.
Pessimistic or optimistic: I could handle more pessimistic.
Idealistic or realistic: Realistic.
Romantic or unromantic: Romantic.
♥ You and Him
Describe your ideal date: Ideally we'd first go somewhere we could spend a long time talking and laughing. I've always liked places like zoos and aquariums for that. And then we would go on to a more fancy dinner, where we could have something delicious!
Once you get past the initial "honeymoon" stage, what would help keep your relationship alive? Adventure! As long as I have a nice home to come back to, I want to try everything once. We could always go fun places together, eat new things, and do things we'd never done before.
How would you handle arguments? I try to handle them by walking away and calming down, but sometimes I do blow up. Hopefully the person I'm matched with would be good at staying calm so that we could work on it together.
Do you believe in a traditional marriage (woman stays home and keeps house, man goes out and works) or a more modern marriage? If that was something we both wanted, and it was understood that I was doing it because I wanted to and not because it was expected of me, that would be fine. If someone tried to force me into that role, I would not be happy with it.
♥ Anything else you'd like to add? I'd just like to ask that I don't get matched with Heathcliff unless you absolutely have to, because I think he's a total jerk.
And because votes are still a must...
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http://community.livejournal.com/literaryheroine/291491.html?thread=2807459#t28074592.
http://community.livejournal.com/literaryheroine/290646.html?thread=2807638#t28076383.
http://community.livejournal.com/literaryheroine/290357.html?thread=2807861#t2807861