Comments | lojak23: duh jake, duh

lojak23

duh jake, duh

May 04, 2006 08:13

jake you dumbass, you don't need to transfer to figure your shit out. all you need to do is withdraw for a year, get a job, and figure your shit out then. fill out transfer applications, and two falls from now decide again where you want to go to school. it may be mt holyoke, or it may be UCLA, or santa cruz. kudos. ready set go!

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k1d_t_playa May 4 2006, 14:12:35 UTC

maybe you need to do that, but how does your g/f feel about that?!

akronroots22 May 4 2006, 16:28:43 UTC

Take your time kid. Breathe. Very important.

...take care homie.

lojak23 May 4 2006, 23:08:16 UTC

yeah, i know. i'm just so sick of having little snippets of revelations whenever i'm OFF campus. i need to be in the real world to figure it out. if i don't have it figured out when the time is up then i'll either return to mt holyoke, or continue in a co-ed school. also i'll make some money. rock.

akronroots22 May 5 2006, 00:32:51 UTC

*nods* It is hard because college/"real world" are totally two different things.

I am just worried that you are running from something, or I don't even know. But You know what is good for you, and I think you will do fab, and either way I support you. Just make sure you are happy.... and who knows.

I couldn't say for you if you would be more comfortable at MoHo or at a different co-ed school. Ya know? I can see both sides.

lojak23 May 5 2006, 01:23:26 UTC

that's what i want to find out. i'm not 100% comfy at MHC, and i may be even more uncomfy at a co-ed school, or in the work force. but either way, life is co-ed, and i need to learn how i fit into that. as a transguy, a genderqueer, or just a REALLY REALLY masculine woman. nothing is getting ruled out, but i honestly hope that being out there will flip my mind one way or another about T since T so affects how i'll relate to the rest of the world. (or rather how the world will relate to me) and i need to figure out if i want that. if that makes any sense... either way, i need to do some time living as a man full time, and i'm not getting that experience at MHC.

wendsday May 4 2006, 19:48:18 UTC

jake, a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do.
but i'll miss you a lot.
so be prepared to have me come camp out on your floor in cali.