The wisest thing to do is almost always the simplest too. First, get clear on your intentions. There's always some kind of payoff for staying in a situation. Now ask yourself if all that hassle is truly worth it.
i wonder if i really do have chicken pox again. hopefully ill find out today. its pretty sweet that i worked in the public all day yesterday.
and its too bad itll probably take another 3 years for me to get over it. i want to go on vacation. i want to be somewhere warmer. and somewhere having tons of fun. its just too bad.
The more you think you understand, the more lost you are. So if you're feeling bewildered and confused, you're actually much closer to the answer than you realize. New choices emerge out of this uncertainty.