baby thoughts

[longbeachgirl]

I am wondering now, should I have another baby? Should I not and go to school next fall? How does one decide this rationally? A "sort-of" friend of mine just announced she is pregnant (her son is 2 weeks younger than my daughter) so her babies would be 22 months apart. I was shocked at first- what a lot of work that will be, I am tired just

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betcha know what I'll say . . .

[rednest]

Whatever you do is right. Because it just is that way. Though I do think having more is so wild and fucking exhausting. It's also great. to have that clan feeling. to see them together. it's wild at first and then it mellows. well, maybe not mellow. . .ha ha . tell me more! Do you think R wants more? You guys are such good parents and he's a good support dad for a pregnant you , I think. A friend of mine also got pregnant and I totally wanted another one. Good thing N got a vasectomy I'd be pregnant by now. I'm just a nutcase. I'm glad you're reading a book. that's cool. I loved your chocolate chip comments one. thanks for it!